When You Don't Know Where to Turn: A Self-Diagnosing Guide to Counseling and TherapyBartlett, Steven J.
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When You Don't Know Where to Turn: A Self-Diagnosing Guide to Counseling and Therapy
Bartlett, Steven J.
Consumer education; Counseling; Psychotherapy
Four years passed, and the night terrors did not. The family of three
was becoming battle-scarred. Bobby hated to go to bed at night,
fearing the inevitable. His parents, sometimes patient, sometimes not,
used whatever ways they could, even a prescribed sedative for Bobby, so
he could relax and get to sleep, to no avail.
Could Dr. Chase help?
Dr. Chase decided to meet with Bobby by himself. He found that Bobby
was very willing to talk about his "bad dreams." Dr. Chase asked him
to describe what happened each night.
"Oh, Doctor," Bobby began, "it's really awful. I know it's going to
happen, but I can't do anything to stop it. I stay up as late as {118}
I can, and I will do anything not to go to sleep. But when I do, I'll
_kind of_ wake up a little later, and I'll see Mother and Dad looking
very worried. At the same time, I'll see a box, with white walls,
glowing brightly, but not in the room where Mother and Dad are. It's
in some space, I guess it's in my mind, a black space, with that
white-colored cube just floating there. And then it begins to turn
inside out. My stomach feels like it's turning inside out, and it
hurts and scares me. It feels awful. I really think if the cube
turned all the way inside out, I'd die. But it never does; I always
wake up first."
Dr. Chase began to meet with Bobby three times a week. He gradually
gained his trust. At a session during the third week of treatment, he
asked Bobby if he would play a word association game with him.
DR. CHASE: Tell me what you think of when I say, "dog."
BOBBY: Cat.
DR. CHASE: Black.
BOBBY: White.
DR. CHASE: Chair.
BOBBY: Cushion.
DR. CHASE: Box.
BOBBY: House.
DR. CHASE: Angry
BOBBY: Mad.
Dr. Chase spent about fifteen minutes writing down some of Bobby's
associations. Bobby gave back associations in the rapid-fire way Dr.
Chase asked, doing this almost automatically, leaving no time to
deliberate. Gradually, Dr. Chase felt he saw a pattern emerging, and
he was able to confirm this from Bobby's associations in later sessions.
Toward the end of the sixth week, Dr. Chase sketched for Bobby's
parents the interpretation he had developed during Bobby's short-term
experience in psychoanalysis: "I believe Bobby has unconsciously been
trying to tell you something in a highly symbolic form: often the mind
expresses deep-seated fears in the imagery of dreams.
"I've tested Bobby in a variety of ways. Always, he appears to
associate the box in his dream with home or with a house. I'm fairly
certain that 'being turned inside out' symbolizes for him the process
of moving out of all the houses you have moved away {119} from. A
house really is turned inside out when you move: all of its contents
are taken out, usually in boxes.
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