When You Don't Know Where to Turn: A Self-Diagnosing Guide to Counseling and TherapyBartlett, Steven J.
Science
When You Don't Know Where to Turn: A Self-Diagnosing Guide to Counseling and Therapy
Bartlett, Steven J.
Consumer education; Counseling; Psychotherapy
Unconsciously, the dread of actually making love with him has
generalized to a dread of sexual activity of any kind. Without any
conscious intent on her part, an association is formed between sexual
intercourse and breaking a vase. She is not aware of the unconscious
symbolic connection she has established between these acts. Similarly,
she begins to associate the bolster at the head of her bed with her
father and identifies her mother with the headboard.
The pressure of this repressed material impels her to go through an
elaborate ritual each night before she can get to sleep. First she
arranges the several vases in her room so that she feels they are well
protected against being broken (thereby guarding against sexual
intercourse). Then she makes sure that the bolster does not come into
contact with the headboard (in this way she gains the substitute
satisfaction of keeping her mother and father apart).
As her analysis proceeds, and the analyst is able--and here, timing is
important--to encourage her to become conscious of her repressed
feelings and generalized dread of sex, her need for the nightly ritual
is gradually eliminated.
It is not difficult to think of other problems, sometimes of a
handicapping kind, that, because of their obsessive or compulsive
nature, interfere with normal living. Compulsive handwashing is a
classical example; compulsive overeating, bulimia, {117} and its
opposite, anorexia nervosa, as well as nymphomania, a need for sexual
promiscuity, are a few others.
AN EXAMPLE OF BRIEF PSYCHOANALYSIS
Dr. Richard Chase is a psychiatrist who specializes in emotional
problems of children. John and Rachel Edmonton have come to see him
about their twelve-year-old son, Bobby, their only child. John is an
evangelical minister in his early forties who travels a great deal,
taking his family with him.
When Bobby was eight years old, he began to have strange and violent
nightmares. He would go to sleep and then apparently awaken about an
hour later, asking for a drink of water or expressing a need to go to
the bathroom. A few minutes later, Bobby would seem to lose his
balance and stumble over furniture, sometimes running into walls,
crying aloud that he was "turning inside out" and was dying. Often his
parents would have to restrain him to keep him from hurting himself.
After a few minutes, the nightmare would end and Bobby would come out
of it, a terrified, confused little boy in tears.
So far, John and Rachel, with their frequent moves, had not been able
to get professional help that had made a difference. Bobby had been
examined by a neurologist, and an electroencephalograph test was done
to determine if some kind of epileptic disorder might be involved. The
test was negative. They had also taken Bobby to a child psychologist,
who said that Bobby was bright, sensitive, and precocious, that this
kind of nightmare was called a _night terror_ (_pavor nocturnis_), and
that the problem would eventually subside.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account