Black people -- Jamaica; Jamaica; Slavery -- Jamaica
Life for the women was little better. If Madam could read and write it
was as much as she could do. Whatever might have been the opinion of
society in the Elizabethan era, undoubtedly, until but quite a few years
ago, a learned woman was looked upon askance, and a gentleman--how the
word is going out of use--ever feared that he might be thought to be in
any way connected with trade. Even I can remember my grandmother saying
to me that no gentleman wished to write a clear hand lest people should
think he had been a clerk, and as for a woman very little reading and
writing was good enough for her. Reading she regarded as “waste of time”
for a woman, and my grandmother was born in the end of the eighteenth
century and died an old, old woman in the last quarter of the
nineteenth. She prided herself--with justice--on her courtly manners,
and like one of Jane Austen's heroines, was a lady of leisure, never did
I see her doing anything. She must have worked, for she was a poor woman
and her house was nicely kept, but it would have been derogatory to
allow even her granddaughter to see her sweeping or dusting, or cooking
or washing up the crockery. I fear the ladies of the planters and their
daughters had less education than even my grandmother would have thought
necessary and the courtly manners were left out.
If young Master made free with the better-looking negro wenches, or, as
time went on, with the mulattoes and quadroons, it made life exceedingly
dull for his sisters and his neighbours' sisters. Nay, more, it
absolutely ruined their lives, and it was a cross they must bear with
a smile, pretend indeed that it was a thing to which they never gave a
thought. Yet these girls were brought up to think that marriage was the
be-all and end-all of a woman's life. It was, of course. Nowadays, when
most careers are open to her, it is hard on a girl if she may not have
the hope of marrying, and she may marry any time between twenty and
forty. But if she does not marry, she may still have an important place
in the world. Then if she did not marry young she was at once counted a
nonentity, she had little chance of marrying at all, her life must needs
be empty and she had no standing in the world.
And maturity comes so quickly in the tropics. Her time was so woefully
short. Shorter than it was in the Old Country, and it was short enough
there. “She had passed her first bloom,” writes Jane Austen on one
occasion--and she meant it always--“she was nearly twenty.” If she had
not a beau by the time she was sixteen, or were not married by eighteen
or nineteen, a girl was branded as a failure, and I think there must
have been many heart-burnings among the white women of Jamaica in these
long ago days. The twentieth century has given women better fortune,
taken away the bitterness that is the portion of the woman who, being as
it were on show, is passed by as worthless.
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