Why a National Literature Cannot Flourish in the United States of North AmericaRocchietti, Joseph
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Why a National Literature Cannot Flourish in the United States of North America
Rocchietti, Joseph
American literature; United States -- Social life and customs
That the american ladies would not be inferior in kindness to any
italian lady, I have no doubt, could they believe that we, of the
fighting tribe, are not dogs respecting them. Nevertheless, I have a
high respect towards the american ladies, as far as a good heart is
concerned, though a bad custom injures too much their sensible left
side: and as it is the best side of woman, I would not like to see
the american ladies so badly treated by their very bad teachers, who,
like heedless fathers, complain of their children, who would be good,
had they not spoiled them. Yes: the american ladies are naturally
good children. And, were only one single lady, who would thank me by
having said such a truth in their defence, I would call myself fully
rewarded for my trouble in defending them. But, were they all bad,
and at the same time, were they all thanking me for having said a
falsehood, I would be very sorry for it. The american lady to whom I
gave up my place with the dignity of a man, and not with the dejection
of a commanded dog, showed me one of her most thankful, and charming
smiles, not for the place I ceded to her; but, for having given her
a good lesson. And the woman who acknowledges her fault with such a
smile, were she properly and tenderly managed, she would be an angel.
If my kindest offices to ladies did hurt my feeling, when I was not
acquainted with the american custom, I felt ashamed when I offered them
to gentlemen, who received it as if they thought me their inferior: and
then, I repented of having been polite to them. Still, we must mind the
_ne quid nimis_ in politeness also: and, indeed, there are some who are
so excessively polite among other nations, with whom politeness becomes
excessively uncomfortable.
However, I always see something good, among the faults of man. Indeed,
I feel more pleased in seeing rather an excess of politeness towards
ladies, even to those who do not deserve it, than not enough of it
to them. And to the lady, whose education taught her how to place
a distinction between selfesteem, and selfishness, kindness to her
creates kindness. Besides, the politeness which american gentlemen have
for women, it is of that kind, which must please the ladies. It is a
generous service as a gentleman, before careless parents, would give to
their naughty, spoiled child. The most uncouth man fails not in tact
of gentility, when he gives any service to ladies. It is a national,
generous, and natural politeness, for which females must always feel
themselves at home. Blackguards here, would not stare in the face of a
lady, passing by; and I am so much pleased of it that, were I seeing
in the streets such a blackguard, I would join with all my heart the
american gentlemen to reprove the scamp.
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