With the Empress Dowager of ChinaCarl, Katharine A. (Katharine Augusta)
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With the Empress Dowager of China
Carl, Katharine A. (Katharine Augusta)
China -- Court and courtiers; Cixi, Empress dowager of China, 1835-1908; Empresses -- China -- Biography
On their marriage the brides of nobles of a certain rank go to
the Palace to be presented to the Empress Dowager. This ceremony
corresponds to the presentation, on their marriage, of ladies at
the English Court. These brides are always magnificently dressed in
embroidered gowns of rich colors, and wear, for the first time, the
Court coiffure of the married ladies, the magnificent golden filigree,
jeweled construction, which I have already described, and for this
occasion they wear a profusion of jewels. The Manchu ladies use much
more discretion in wearing jewels than the Chinese ladies. The latter
will sometimes wear as many as fifteen bracelets on each arm, and the
number of jewels they put in their coiffure seems to be limited only by
the space they have at their disposal.
The brides come to the Palace in red satin bridal chairs, accompanied
by their husband’s mother and his married sisters, if he has any; if
not, by his nearest women relations. On their arrival in the Precincts
they first go to the Throne-room and make their bows and prostrations
before the Empress Dowager, to thank her for the gifts she has sent.
Sometimes Her Majesty would speak to them at some length, seeming to
give them advice. After making their obeisances to her, they then make
their salutations to the young Empress. They spend the day at the
Palace, take luncheon with the young Empress and Princesses, and leave
about three o’clock. These brides were generally very young girls,
though sometimes I was surprised to see that they had well passed
the first bloom of youth, for I had thought that all Oriental women
were married very young. The young Empress was always charming to the
brides, and seemed to watch over their pleasure, and try to make them
enjoy this rather trying day, when they were the observed of all
observers. Among these brides, the winter I was in Peking, was the wife
of the Emperor’s youngest brother, a charming young girl with sweet
manners, far more attractive in every way than Yung Lu’s daughter, the
wife of Prince C’hun.
The Chinese look upon a daughter, at her birth, as a misfortune, one
of the ills that must be endured, and while loving her individually,
a daughter is not welcomed into the family nor allowed the privileges
of a son. It is, however, quite different with the Manchus. A daughter
not being able to sacrifice to the ancestors, even Manchus prefer a
son; but a daughter is a welcome member of the family, and she has
a distinct and independent position of her own. One of the Chinese
ministers to Washington once told me that the only unmarried woman in
the world whose position is analogous to that of the “American Girl,”
in her own family, is the Manchu girl.
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