Women -- Economic conditions; Women -- Employment; Women -- Social and moral questions
family be large often sinks beneath the burden, allowing his offspring,
untaught and untrained, to become waste products of human life; or, in
that of the professional man, who by his mental toil is compelled to
support and educate, at immense expense, his sons till they are twenty
or older, and to sustain his daughters, often throughout their whole
lives should they not marry, and to whom a large family proves often no
less disastrous; while the state whose women produce recklessly large
masses of individuals in excess of those for whom they can provide
instruction and nourishment is a state, in so far, tending toward
deterioration. The commandment to the modern woman is now not simply
“Thou shalt bear,” but rather, “Thou shalt not bear in excess of thy
power to rear and train satisfactorily;” and the woman who should
today appear at the door of a workhouse or the tribunal of the
poor-law guardians followed by her twelve infants, demanding honourable
sustenance for them and herself in return for the labour she had
undergone in producing them, would meet with but short shrift. And the
modern man who on his wedding-day should be greeted with the ancient
good wish, that he might become the father of twenty sons and twenty
daughters, would regard it as a malediction rather than a blessing. It
is certain that the time is now rapidly approaching when child-bearing
will be regarded rather as a lofty privilege, permissible only to
those who have shown their power rightly to train and provide for their
offspring, than a labour which in itself, and under whatever conditions
performed, is beneficial to society. (The difference between the
primitive and modern view on this matter is aptly and quaintly
illustrated by two incidents. Seeing a certain Bantu woman who appeared
better cared for, less hard worked, and happier than the mass of
her companions, we made inquiry, and found that she had two impotent
brothers; because of this she herself had not married, but had borne by
different men fourteen children, all of whom when grown she had given
to her brothers. “They are fond of me because I have given them so many
children, therefore I have not to work like the other women; and my
brothers give me plenty of mealies and milk,” she replied, complacently,
when questioned, “and our family will not die out.” And this person,
whose conduct was so emphatically anti-social on all sides when viewed
from the modern standpoint, was evidently regarded as pre-eminently of
value to her family and to society because of her mere fecundity. On the
other hand, a few weeks back appeared an account in the London papers
of an individual who, taken up at the East End for some brutal offence,
blubbered out in court that she was the mother of twenty children.
“You should be ashamed of yourself!” responded the magistrate; “a woman
capable of such conduct would be capable of doing anything!” and the
fine was remorselessly inflicted. Undoubtedly, if somewhat brutally,
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account