English poetry -- 19th century; Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions; Women -- Suffrage
“7.—Only as the mother of a son, as the continuator of the direct line
of a family, can a woman escape from her degradation and become
to a certain degree her husband’s equal; but then only in
household affairs, especially the female department, and in the
ancestral hall.
“8.—In the other world, woman’s condition remains exactly the same,
for the same laws of existence apply. She is not the equal of
her husband; she belongs to him, and is dependent for her
happiness on the sacrifice offered by her descendants.
“These are the doctrines taught by Confucius, Mencius, and the ancient
sages, whose memory has been revered in China for thousands of years.”
And now, what wonder that Chinese civilisation and progress is, and
remains, fossilised, inert, dead?
JAPAN.
“There is one supreme maxim upon which the conduct of a well-bred woman
is made to turn, and this is ‘obedience.’ Life, the Japanese girl is
taught, divides itself into three stages of obedience. In youth she is
to obey her father; in marriage her husband; in widowhood her eldest
son. Hence her preparation for life is always preparation for service.
The marriage of the Japanese girl usually takes place when she is about
seventeen. It is contrary to all custom that she should have any voice
in it. Once married, she passes from her father’s household into the
household of her husband, and her period of self-abnegation begins. Her
own family is to be as nothing to her. Her duty is to charm the
existence of her husband, and to please his relations. Custom demands
that she shall always smile upon him, and that she shall carefully hide
from him any signs of bad humour, jealousy, or physical pain.”—Tinseau
(quoted in _Review of Reviews_, Vol. IV., p. 282.)
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