Nor can the number of divorces be placed to the account of women. When
a Julius Cæsar takes his tenderly loved daughter from her husband and
marries her to another man in the interest of his own ambitions; when
an Augustus makes laws against immorality, yet divorces an innocent
wife who objects to his own infidelities, and puts in her place a
beautiful woman of unsullied fame, whom he has taken from a worthy
man; when both of these rulers of the world compel good citizens to
divorce the consorts they possibly love, in order to dispose of one
or the other for personal ends or the good of the State--it is hardly
worth while to hold helpless women responsible for conditions made and
enforced by men in power, who are called wise and think themselves
passably good. The most that can be said is that women of knowledge and
character are less likely to bear wrong and abuse silently, but they
are more likely to uphold the dignity of the family and to ignore the
petty vanities and jealousies which are among the most prolific causes
of divorce. A cultivated intellect does not necessarily imply good
morals, but, other things being equal, an educated woman is less easily
led into wrong, as she has more resources and is better fitted to stand
on her own feet; unfortunately, this is precisely what her critics in
the past have not wished her to do.
With so many conspicuous examples in high places, it is hardly strange
that divorces became deplorably common. “Does anybody blush at a
divorce,” says one, “since illustrious and noble women compute their
years, not by the number of consuls, but by the number of husbands they
have had?” We hear of a woman who was the twenty-first wife of her
twenty-third husband. The pretexts were often slight. It was said of
Mæcenas that he had been divorced a thousand times, though he had but
one wife, as he loved her and always married her over again. The woman
who had been but once married was honored as a _univira_. She
was too often, however, like a goddess worshiped from afar by men who
found both interest and pleasure in the number of their wives. Much of
the trouble was due to the fortune-hunters, who did not scruple to use
any means to get rid of a wife and retain her dowry, at the expense of
her fair name. Even good women were so wholly at the mercy of false
charges that Antoninus made a law that no man could bring suit against
his wife for immorality unless he could prove his own fidelity. We know
that wise and virtuous women were often forced to seclude themselves
from the aggressions of wicked men against whose machinations they were
unable to find protection.
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