There was one law, however, which might be considered to advantage by
some of our own legislators. It had been decreed that no one should
marry sooner than six months after a divorce. Augustus extended the
time to eighteen months. We talk much and with a fine consciousness
of superior virtue about the chaotic state of Roman marriages. What
will our fortieth-century moralist who reads present history, as
photographed from day to day in the blazing journals, say of the
decadence of a civilization in which people may marry two hours after
divorce, or find themselves some fine morning released from their
marriage bonds without knowing it? And we are an eminently moral people.
On the influence of the Roman women let the Romans speak for
themselves. It was proposed in the Senate that men should not be
permitted to take their wives into the provinces, as they had too much
power with the soldiers, interfered in settling business affairs, and
made another center of government--indeed, they sometimes “presided
at the drill of cohorts and the evolutions of the legions,” besides
dividing the homage. The majority of the senators objected to this
bill, and pronounced its author “no fit censor.” An able and eloquent
man, in reply to it, said that “much of the sternness of antiquity had
been changed into a better and more genial system.” A few concessions
had been made to the wants of women, but “in other respects man and
wife share alike.” There might be some scheming women, but were the
magistrates free from various unworthy passions, and was this a
reason why none should be sent to the provinces? If husbands were
sometimes corrupted by their wives, were single men any better? “It
is idle to shelter our own weakness under other names; for it is
the husband’s fault if the wife transgresses propriety.” This wise
orator was sustained by eminent men who gave their own fortunate
experiences, and the bill was lost. Such a tribute to the helpfulness
and strong character of the Roman woman may be commended to a few of
our enlightened thinkers who, curiously enough, use the low standards
of men who never pretended to be moral, and the frailties of dependent
women who were not permitted to be so, or of a class that has always
appealed to the weaknesses of men since the beginning of the world,
to prove the degeneracy of society under the influence of feminine
intelligence! It was never the woman of strong intellectual fiber and
serious interests that Rome had to fear. It was another class, that did
not, in any sense, represent her either in intelligence or character.
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