Not less pathetic is the fate of Alcestis, though it is a voluntary
one. She robes herself for the tomb as tranquilly as if she were going
out on a message of mercy. With sad dignity she crowns with myrtle the
altar at which she prays, but not until she takes leave of the familiar
room so consecrated by love and happiness do the tears begin to fall.
This tender wife, who freely gives her life to save her husband, does
not falter as she passionately embraces her weeping children, and bids
a kind farewell to her pitying servants. The only thing she asks for
herself is to see the sun once more, and she tries to inspire this
selfish, posing, half-hearted husband with her own fortitude, as her
spirit “glides on light wing down the silent paths of sleep.” One
cannot help wondering if she never had a misgiving that the man who
could ask his wife to comfort him for his unspeakable misery in letting
her die for him was not worth dying for. But the Greek women had been
long trained in the school of passive suffering, and it never seemed
to occur to them that it was not quite in the nature of things for the
weaker half of the human family to have a monopoly of the sacrifices.
It was a part of their destiny; the gods so willed it. Men looked upon
it as a comfortable arrangement for themselves, that had good moral
results for women. To-day we are inclined to ask why a discipline that
is good for women, and tends toward their moral perfection, is not also
good for men, who have a like need of being perfected.
But, in spite of rational theories, the world’s heart still thrills
to a generous emotion so overpowering as to drown all consideration
of self, whether or not it is faulty in its mundane wisdom or its
arithmetic. And this it is which casts so lasting a glamour over the
women who loom out of the twilight of that far-off time, in noble
proportions that dwarf the selfish, arrogant men with whom they are
mated. They rise to the dignity of goddesses in their divine pity and
courage, while the great Achilles, the masculine ideal of the Greeks,
weeps like a child, and sends a generation of men to sleep on the
plains of Troy, because he cannot have what he wishes.
Yet it is in the minds of men that these women were conceived, and
it is impossible to suppose that they had not at least some faint
counterpart in real life, though possibly men, and women as well, are
apt to make ideals of what they think ought to be rather than of what
is. But why did the Greek poets cast such ridicule and dishonor upon
the sex which they have shown capable of such supreme devotion and such
exalted virtues?
There is a touch of justice in the bitter scorn with which the blind
Œdipus speaks of his sons who
Keep house at home like maidens in their prime,
while his daughters wear themselves to death for him and for his
sorrows.
No women they, but men in will to toil.
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