The princesses of Urbino had doubtless read Plato. In an age, too,
that occupied itself with Boccaccio, who had glorified the senses
and written books that no pure and refined woman could read, they
had turned to Dante and the spiritual love which was an inspiration
and a benediction. In the white soul of Beatrice they found the
exquisite flower of womanhood. They caught also the subtle fragrance
of the ideal love which Petrarch gave, first to a woman, then to an
unfading memory. It was of such a love they dreamed and liked to
talk. Then one of the chief apostles of Platonism was the brilliant
Bembo, who was the star of this company. “Through love,” he says, “the
supreme virtues rule the inferior.” He puts on record and dedicates
to Lucrezia Borgia the conversations of three days on its joys and
sorrows; but the subject was evidently exhausted, as, at the end,
a hermit gives a homily on the vanity of the world. He closes an
eloquent apostrophe, however, with these words: “Chase away ignorance
and make us see celestial beauty in its perfection. Love, it is the
communion with divine beauty, the banquet of angels, the heavenly
ambrosia.” On this theme his listeners rang the changes, but not
always on so ethereal a plane. The relative constancy of the sexes,
the divine right of man, the passive nature of woman, who was called
a pale moon to the masculine sun, and various other points, had their
fair share of discussion. Between terrestrial and celestial love
there are many gradations, and the character and temperament of the
men were clearly revealed in their opinions. Some were disposed to
be autocrats, others took issue with masculine egotism, and still
others dwelt on the sentimental side of the question. One of the
Fregosos rather ungraciously assumed the traditional attitude of his
sex and contended that women are “imperfect animals,” not at all to be
compared with men. But he was in an unpopular minority. The Duchess
Elisabetta was a well-poised, discreet woman, who was devoted to her
invalid husband, kept her admirers at a prudent distance, and was in
no wise a victim to superfluous sensibility. The effusive Bembo, who
was given to friendships touched with the fire of the imagination, was
untiring in his devotion to this Minerva, but he confessedly adored
her as a goddess from afar. The witty and brilliant Emilia Pia had a
temperament the reverse of sentimental, and was ready to demolish any
castle of moonlight with a shaft of merciless satire. Both brought a
solid equipment of common sense into an analysis that often reached a
very fine point. But this friendship that was not love, this love that
was a sublimated friendship, appealed to them as it did to many others
besides poets in a grossly material age. To separate the soul from the
senses and intellectualize the emotions, was the natural protest of
intelligent women against the old traditions that considered them only
as servants or toys of men’s fancies.
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