Socrates listens with great interest to this advanced theory of
wife-training as it is unfolded to him, and sagely remarks that the
husband is responsible for her errors if he does not properly teach
her. It seems that he did not try the system on Xanthippe, or if he
did it was a dismal failure, as the much-abused woman is never quoted
as a model or a saint, and we do not hear that he taxed himself with
her shortcomings. He said that he married her for the excitement of
conquest--the same motive that leads a man to try his power over a
high-spirited horse; also as a discipline, because he was sure that he
could endure every one else if he could endure her. It would be curious
to know what she thought about it, but one cannot help suspecting that
she had the lion’s share of the discipline, and that Socrates was a
greater success as a philosopher and talker than as a husband.
There was one exception, however, to this rigid seclusion, a small
recognition of the fact that women probably have souls. They were
allowed a part in religious festivals, and these were events in their
lives. They meant a breath of fresh air and a glimpse of the outer
world. Perhaps they meant also a little spiritual consolation, which
must often have been greatly needed; but of this we are not sure. The
Hellenic divinities were not eminently consoling, and the wise Athena
was particularly unsympathetic, though the Athenian virgins had at
least the pleasure of making her richly ornamented robes, and putting
them on her once a year. The woman in the comedy says that at seven she
could carry the peplum in the procession, at ten she ground cakes for
the patron goddess, and when she grew to be a beautiful maiden, she
had charge of the sacred basket.
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