For centuries she had no right to her own property, no
control of her own person, no choice in marriage, no recourse against
cruelty and oppression. “The husband has absolute power over the wife,”
said the stern old Cato; “it is for him to condemn and punish her for
any shameful act, such as taking wine or violating the moral law.” To
show what was possible in the way of surveillance, we are told that he
was in the habit of kissing her, when he came home, to satisfy himself
that she had not been drinking. One man who found his wife sipping wine
beat her to death; another dismissed his weaker half because she was
seen on the street without a veil; and a daring woman was sent away
because she went to the circus without leave. Any man could spend his
wife’s money, beat her, sell her, give her to some one else when he was
tired of her, even put her to death, “acting as accuser, judge, jury,
and executioner.” In the last case it was better to call her friends
into council, perhaps even necessary, if they were powerful enough to
ask for an explanation; but “a man can do as he likes with his own”
was sufficient to cover any injustice or any crime. Even in the last
days of the Republic, when the laws were greatly modified, the younger
Cato, a man noted for his stoical virtues, gave his wife to his friend
Hortensius, and after his death took her back--with a dowry added. What
she thought of the matter signified little. It does not appear that she
was even consulted. The family was the unit, and the man was the family.
It is fair to say that it was not women alone who suffered from this
peculiar phase of Roman society, as men had little more freedom so long
as their fathers lived; but it fell much more severely on those who
were, in the nature of things, more helpless. The best they could hope
for was a change of masters, which might be for the worse; and who was
to protect them from their irresponsible protectors, even with all the
safeguards supposed to be provided by law? For this evidently put them
where Terence did the philosophers, along with horses and hunting-dogs,
that were owned but not necessarily considered.
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