It is said, in praise of the morals of Rome during its first centuries,
that there was not a divorce for five hundred years. The exact nature
of this merit is seen more clearly when we find that a woman could
not apply for a divorce, or expect a redress of any wrong, whatever
might befall her; while a man simply sent away his wife, if she did
not please him, without any formalities, and with slight, if any,
penalties. This did not release her from perpetual servitude, though
he was free to follow his inclinations, amenable to no law and no
obligation. It is true, however, that Roman matrons prided themselves
on their dignity. A certain respect was exacted for them, and
familiarity in their presence was a punishable offense. They took every
occasion also to show appreciation of their defenders. They mourned a
year for Brutus, who died in avenging Lucretia’s honor, and did the
same later for his upright colleague.
Many years afterward there was a temple of patrician chastity in which
women assembled for sacred rites, but they found as many causes for
contention as some of our societies do to-day. One noble matron lost
caste by marrying a plebeian, and was excluded. She protested in vain.
Her birth, her spotless fame, her devotion to her husband, counted for
nothing so long as that husband did not belong to the elect. There
was no lack of spirited words, but the matter did not end here. This
slighted Virginia started another association on her own ground, set
apart a chapel in her house, and erected an altar to plebeian chastity.
The standards were to be much higher. She called together the plebeian
ladies, and proposed that they emulate one another in virtue, as men
did in valor. No woman of doubtful honor or twice married was admitted.
Unfortunately, this organization in time opened its doors too wide, and
shared the fate of many others.
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