of the old relations of superior and inferior, as well as the fine
attainments of many women and the honor in which they were held, they
also pay the highest tribute to virtues that still shone brightly in an
age when it had become a fashion to speak of them as things of the past.
“Morals are gone,” said Seneca. “Evil triumphs. All virtue, all
justice, is disappearing. That is what was exclaimed in our fathers’
days, what they are repeating to-day, and what will be the cry of our
children.” If we may credit the history of that age, there was reason
enough for the cry, but there was another side to the dark picture.
This critical philosopher did not spare the vices and follies of
the great ladies of his time, and any tribute of his to the talents
and virtues of women is of value, as it is not likely to incline to
the side of flattery. In his letters of consolation to his mother,
Helvia, he mentions the fact that she is “learned in the principles
of all the sciences,” in spite of the old-fashioned notions of his
father, who “feared letters as a means of corruption for women.” More
liberal himself, he exhorts her to return to them as “a source of
safety, consolation, and joy.” To Marcia he writes in a tone that is
appreciative, though a trifle patronizing: “Who dares say that nature
in creating woman has gifted her less generously, or restricted for her
the sphere of the virtues? Her moral strength, do not doubt it, equals
ours.... Habit will render her, like us, capable of great efforts,
as of great griefs.” An incident of his own family life is worth
repeating, as it shows a pleasant and not uncommon side of domestic
relations at a period when Roman morals were at the worst. His wife was
solicitous for his health. “As my life depends upon hers,” he says, “I
shall follow her advice, because in doing so I am caring for her. Can
anything be more agreeable than to feel that in loving your wife you
are loving yourself?” The devotion on her side was more heroic, if less
reasonable. When he was politely advised to take himself to some other
world where he would be less in the way of his civil superiors, she
insisted upon dying with him. He tried in vain to dissuade her, but,
finding her persistent, he gave his consent, saying: “Let the fortitude
of so courageous an end be alike in both of us, but let there be more
in your death to win fame.” Her veins were opened with his; but Nero
did not need to get rid of her just then, so the attendants quickly
bound her wounds and saved her. This devoted Paulina had only the
satisfaction of sacrificing her color, as she was noted for her extreme
pallor to the end of her life.
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