We have other letters from a thinker and seer of the next century,
which give us as sympathetic an insight into the private life of
the Antonines as Cicero and Pliny give us into that of their own
contemporaries in the two preceding ones. Nowhere does Marcus Aurelius
appear in so human a light as in this correspondence with Fronto, the
distinguished master and philosopher, which came to us at a late day
out of the silence of ages. It reveals one of the rare friendships
of the world, and incidentally throws a pleasant light on the family
relations of the wisest and simplest of emperors.
History has cast a cloud over the wives of the Antonines--whether
justly or not we can never know. In an age of great vices, even virtue
is not safe, and the scandal-lover has always delighted to tear fair
names. But the testimony of a husband surely ought to count for more
than the flippant gossip of the idle voluptuary or the witty sneer of
the satirist. Referring to the elder Faustina, Antoninus Pius says: “I
would rather spend my life with her in Gyaros than live without her in
a palace.” As this desolate abode of the exile was supposed to be very
uncomfortable, the compliment was not a light one. It is not in such
terms that men write of faithless wives, nor is it in the nature of
such women to wear the white veil of innocence for a series of years
in the presence of those nearest to them. There was a temple built in
her honor which still keeps guard as a church over the Roman forum, a
permanent monument to the devotion of this tender husband. A charitable
institution for girls, that bore her name, has long since gone the way
of all perishable things.
In the letters of Aurelius, which cover a wide range of thought and
experience, there are constant references to his family. It is
difficult to believe the younger Faustina as wicked as men have painted
her. One of the most beautiful women of her time, as brilliant and
sweet as she was beautiful, the idol of her household, the object of
affectionate care on the part of her husband, this gracious woman has
been a mystery to successive generations. What if the lightly spoken
word of a malicious rival, or a dark insinuation from some impertinent
admirer whose vanity she may have wounded, kindled a fire which the
ages cannot put out? Such things have been, and may be again. “I thank
the gods for giving me a wife so kind, so tender to her children, so
simple,” said the philosopher, who kept his soul at a serene altitude
above things of sense; but he broke down when his children suffered or
died, and mourned this much-loved wife as a saint, giving her divine
honors. He also put a gold statue of her in the seat she had been in
the habit of occupying at the theater, and had her represented in a
bas-relief as borne to heaven, while he gazed after her with longing
eyes.
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