Civic improvement; Urban women; Women in public life
In the proper understanding of this subject of sex hygiene it is
quite impossible for either men or women to go very far alone. I am
sure that through the ages there have been men who have had this
subject very close to their hearts. They have felt that it was
basic, that it was most important; but they felt that it was not a
proper matter to discuss with women and so they have blundered on,
not getting very far in any solution of it. The subject has also
been near the heart of every woman. She hopes that her husband will
be a good man; she hopes that her son will be clean; she sees all
the wreckage and the heartaches in life that come from ignorance of
sex hygiene or lack of attention to it. So women have talked
together as to how the standard of morality might be raised, how
they might teach their sons and daughters, but they have felt that
it was not a topic to discuss with men, so they have blundered on.
They have been too sentimental, they have been too ignorant of the
limitations in the world of practical affairs; they have lacked
well-balanced judgment as to how it was best to teach, how it was
best to help. It is absolutely necessary that earnest men and women
should modify and guide each other in reaching a solution of the
problem.
No home can be successful in its teaching of this subject unless the
father and mother agree on the teaching; if the father thinks it is
not a subject for his wife to consider or to talk about, or if the
mother imagines that she alone shall tell her child, those children
will grow up with a feeling that there is discord at the root of the
family feeling on a most vital subject. Whether the father or mother
shall tell the child is very immaterial. The opportunity may come to
one, it may come to the other; both should be ready to meet it when
it does come.
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