Woman—through a man's eyeglassSalaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
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Woman—through a man's eyeglass
Salaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
Single women; Wives -- Anecdotes; Women -- Anecdotes; Women -- Social and moral questions
Poor Dr. Hearthside, he never bargained for all this aggressive
domesticity; but then, poor Mrs. Hearthside, she began married life
with aspirations of a very different character. Her ideals are
shattered, she has drifted into the purely domestic woman, simply
because she married a man who misunderstood her, or rather who did not
try to understand her at all after marriage. Women are very malleable
creatures; Mrs. Hearthside might have been an ideal wife with another
husband. As it is, to the many who see her only as she is now, she is
simply an uninteresting specimen of a very common type—the domestic
woman. Her soul is really only sleeping; let us hope that it will quite
awaken again, when her daughters dawn into womanhood and her sons into
manhood. Then her life will have new scope, and her own experience
will stand them both in good stead. Will she strive that her daughters
become not of this same type? Perhaps Mrs. Hearthside is happy in her
way. Perhaps she considers her own state more enviable than that of a
hopeless bachelor—like me, for instance. And perhaps it is; for in
children we may live again. They are the resurrection of dead dreams,
unfulfilled ambitions, and lost hopes. The domestic woman has this
consolation, and so she has the better of us “who have free souls”—but
no children.
_A MODERN LADY-NOVELIST_
In the olden days, when fighting was the principal business of men, and
the womenfolk had nought to do but stay at home and wait for the return
of their lords, all feminine imagination, stimulated by the songs of
minstrels, found vent in the weaving of storied tapestries or silken
scarves for the warriors. But in these later days of peace and commerce
and culture, when wives are individuals, and not merely rated among
their husband’s personal effects, and the measured roll of the printing
press is the voice of the civilised world, the imaginative woman wields
the pen, and leaves the needle and the bodkin to her humbler-minded
sisters. So we have the lady-novelist, who is really the most important
and productive type of literary woman. But, when all is said and
done, the ordinary lady-novelist, who turns out her three volumes in
accordance with the stereotyped taste of the novel-reading _clientèle_
of the circulating libraries, is scarcely much more interesting as a
personality than the fashionable _modiste_ who composes her costumes to
suit the taste of her customers.
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