Woman—through a man's eyeglassSalaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
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Woman—through a man's eyeglass
Salaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
Single women; Wives -- Anecdotes; Women -- Anecdotes; Women -- Social and moral questions
So far I have told you about my friend in her literary, or, I may say,
her public capacity only. But to really appreciate Mrs. Talespinner,
one must know her in her home, one must have enjoyed her frequent
companionship. Outsiders, who judge her only from the virile vigour of
her writings, and the audacity of her subjects and their treatment,
or those even who know her only through the daring frankness of her
conversation, can have no idea of the essential womanliness of her
nature. No woman, perhaps, ever so thoroughly got mentally on the
outside of herself, and lived intellectually apart from her own
womanhood. Thus she is a kind of female version of “Hyde and Jekyll,”
the Hyde being her literary personality, the Jekyll her sentimental
self. It is, therefore, very difficult to know her as she actually is.
She will, for instance, catch at some view of a subject which is in
direct opposition to that held by those with whom she is conversing,
and will obstinately argue it out, merely for the intellectual pleasure
she derives from the independence of the position she has assumed. She
may really be in exact accord with her hearers, but the delight to
her of saying startling things, and of warring with words, is similar
to that experienced by the skilful boxer in a bout with the gloves.
But she is not a good stayer, and she is frequently beaten by an
argumentative blow that is straight and strong, while she is honest
enough to own her defeat afterwards, though perhaps not immediately.
She always relies on her strength, but yet knows her weakness; for
she will frankly avow that she is easily influenced. In the course
of conversation, however, she will sometimes be carried away by
fine-sounding phrases which, analysed, are mere verbiage. She will
make statements which may be quite foreign to her real nature, and, to
those who do not know her, she will convey an entirely false impression
of her mental tone, though her mind will have flashed its vitality
before them like a heliograph. The essential qualities of her mind, in
fact, are catholicity of interest, active audacity, and the quickness
and vividness with which she receives an idea, or perceives a fact,
and passes it out again through the crucible of her own sentiency and
experience. It is the same whether she be conversing on any topic of
the day or writing one of her stories. The idyls and the epics of
life, the romantic love-story, the heroism of noble souls, interest
her without impelling her pen to activity; but her literary and
conversational enthusiasm is aroused by those sordid realities which
the daily journals bring to light, by those stories of life in which
the morality is crook-backed and twisted and the humanity limps with a
cloven hoof.
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