Woman—through a man's eyeglassSalaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
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Woman—through a man's eyeglass
Salaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
Single women; Wives -- Anecdotes; Women -- Anecdotes; Women -- Social and moral questions
Yes, Miss Singleton would require a very clever, strong, and determined
man to bring her into matrimonial harmony now. She has acquired too
much of the habit of self-reliance and self-assertion; a long course
of fruitless flirtation, in which she has fenced both with experts and
with amateurs, has caused her to assume towards men always an attitude
of defiant defence, besides, the restlessness born of an unsatisfied
life has become chronic with her. She is never content to remain at
home: her craving for amusement and excitement is unceasing, and
strangers rather than those who belong to her home-circle always claim
her first attention.
However charming and amusing she may be in society, at home she keeps
everything in a ferment, and she is contented with nothing. She
domineers over her parents, as well as over her brothers and sisters,
her cousins, and intimate friends. She captiously criticises whatever
they do, and wishes to rearrange and direct everything. She is jealous
of her relatives and friends who marry, though she constantly avers
that nothing would ever induce her to take unto herself a husband, that
the idea of a woman giving up her personal independence and freedom
to a man is absolutely repulsive to her, while she professes a sort
of contemptuous pity for all those who do voluntarily fall into this
degrading condition. “Marriage is a snare for the weak-minded, and a
delusion for fools,” she will tell you, and she will pretend that she
believes it.
But it was not always so. When I first knew Kate Singleton she was
a bright, sympathetic girl of eighteen, and I envied the man who
should some day call her his wife. She had certainly both will and
character, but these were tempered by true womanly sensibility, and a
good and magnanimous man’s love might have helped her to develop into
a delightful woman and an excellent wife. Unfortunately, however, the
romantic element in her nature was appealed to by the fascinations
of a man who was not good, though he understood women’s weaknesses
fatally well, and knew how to simulate the qualities that would most
readily appeal to any particular girl. The cynical would perhaps
excuse him with that cheap and common plea which covers so much of
the wrong done in this world: “He was no worse than other men.” He
had certainly committed no crime; only he had lived fast, perhaps
a little faster than most men of his age. But he was a handsome
young man, with a very engaging manner, a generous income, and many
temptations; so, of course, it did not take him long to spend his
patrimony, though he enjoyed its full value in luxurious pastimes and
dissipation. Then, having nothing but debts and a rake’s reputation to
his name, he endeavoured to make matrimonial capital out of his good
looks and personal fascination. He met Kate Singleton, whose father
he had understood would give her a handsome dowry, and perceiving the
vulnerable place in her affections, he appealed to her sympathies
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