Woman—through a man's eyeglassSalaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
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Woman—through a man's eyeglass
Salaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
Single women; Wives -- Anecdotes; Women -- Anecdotes; Women -- Social and moral questions
She is the oracle of the house, and she rules accordingly. Perhaps her
constant habit of self-reliance has made her a little dogmatic and
impatient of contradiction. She has the courage of her own opinions,
and the pugnacity of them. It is not wise to differ from them unless
you be prepared to pummel her with logic and authority. Then you
may have a chance with her in argument, but with all her strength
of will and self-reliance, she is a very woman, and her reason will
often be none but a woman’s reason, “I think it so, because I think
it so.” She “sees life steadily,” and if she does not see it quite
whole, she certainly has a good view of it, and from her coign of
vantage she perceives the devious ways of women who have no vocation.
Therefore, she devotes herself to art as a profession, with just the
same enthusiasm as a man of fortune strives in the City to increase his
banking account. She has not the stimulus of necessity, but she feels a
certain triumphant satisfaction in doing what she is not obliged to do.
She has artistic aspirations, why should she not pursue them with
as much avidity as if her livelihood depended upon her success?
Why, she argues, should a woman only take to professional work when
she cannot depend upon men to work for her? And why should she be
accused of taking the bread out of poorer women’s mouths because
she sells pictures, when her father or husband is able and willing
to give her as much as she wants? No, Miss Strongith’will realises
the sordid fact that money is the chief incentive to all work, and
that work is valued according to its price; therefore she claims
the right for women to work for money according to their instincts,
abilities, and inclinations, without exciting any more remark than
a man would who worked under similar circumstances. But though Miss
Strongith’will asserts woman’s right to independence and the courage of
her individuality, she is none the less womanly, none the less gentle
and steadfastly affectionate to those she knows intimately, and those
who understand her. Would she have been more so had she been happily
married, so that her own individuality had blended harmoniously with
that of the man she loved, and had become greater for motherhood? That
is the question.
_THE SUBMISSIVE WOMAN_
I remember, when I was a little boy, a beautiful young woman and a very
handsome man coming to my father’s house, and these were husband and
wife. And I looked upon him with a sort of worshipful wonder, for they
told me he was a brave soldier, and had fought gloriously in battles.
At that period of my life my young imagination was quickened by every
story of adventure, and the only books or pictures that appealed to me
were those that told of battle, or of the doughty deeds of soldiers and
sailors. The sword seemed to me then far mightier than the pen, which
latter I regarded merely as an instrument of scholastic torture.
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