Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to womenGoddard, Gloria
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Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to women
Goddard, Gloria
Married women -- Psychology; Women -- Social and moral questions
Sheer animal passion, or natural love, is no less noble than the
highly sophisticated esthetic sentiment that we favor today. Nor can
love necessarily be limited to one individual. Monogamy is a stricture
laid down to bind us by religion and social morals. The lower animals
are not usually monogamous. Women have done most to advance this law,
although they, too, in the dawn of life were not more monogamous than
men. They were more selective, that is all. Modern monogamy is a product
of property rights, and was merely intended to insure the legitimacy of
the sons so that they might inherit the father’s property. But this
monogamy never applied to the men. Man’s nature is against it, while his
mouth speaks words in its favor. With the appearance of monogamy, came
prostitution. Men demanded that their wives be virtuous, and then went
out and sought other women for their pleasure. This gave rise to the
double standard, of which more will be said later.
Some persons believe that the coming of Christianity raised woman’s
status. This is far from true. Christianity, bringing its preachment
against the flesh, made woman appear as an evil influence. Men were
told to scorn the body. By this time, men were ruling the world, so
they immediately laid all of the blame of sex upon the women. Many of
the early promoters of the church preached violently against marriage,
calling it sinful and wicked. Men came to assume the attitude that they
could be pure and godly, were it not for the alluring seductiveness of
women. The urge of man toward women was denounced as a thing of the
devil. Today, our growing intelligence recognizes the folly of this, and
the purity and loveliness of natural love is conceded.
_Romantic Love._—Romantic love is a hot-house growth feasting upon the
dank soil of denial of natural impulses. It grew up in the days of roving
knighthood, when for long months, and perhaps years, the lovers were
separated. Men and women swore fidelity to each other, and the women at
least were obliged to keep their vows. It became more noble to refuse
than to accept love. All that the couple required was to be together.
They contented themselves with sighs and madrigals. Natural love demands
the possession of the person of the beloved; romantic love contents
itself with the mere presence, or often the mere thought, of the beloved.
Such love, in general, was regarded as illicit. Young knights knew this
passion for great ladies, who were unattainable through marriage, or high
station. Thus sprang up the belief that it was wrong. In fact, it is
harmful only to those who yield to it, in that it festers in the soul,
and knows no outlet.
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