Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to womenGoddard, Gloria
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Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to women
Goddard, Gloria
Married women -- Psychology; Women -- Social and moral questions
With woman’s rising importance in the economic world, this double
standard will cease. Already it is showing signs of age. Woman has traded
the fragility of the hot-house rose for the sturdier wind-blown beauty of
the wild rose, and she has not suffered for it. The old legend that men
admired only the shy retiring girl has been shattered. The business girl
is not left to sit at home in the evening while her more simple sister is
wooed. Far from it—men are anxious to win the favor of these new women.
Nor do they ask for ignorance in them, nor decline to marry them when
they discover their knowledge of life. The modern girl, who accepts a
friendship if she wishes one, has no difficulty in finding a permanent
mate when she desires to. The time will come when the double code is
but an unpleasant memory of an incomplete civilization. Woman has the
choice. It is more probable, and will be infinitely more beneficial to
the race, that she will choose a single standard, whereby men and women
may be monogamous, if they desire, but may elect any other course that
is mutually agreeable. Under such a system, prostitution will wither,
or will be carried on only by those who select it voluntarily, and the
exploitation of young and innocent girls will end.
_Courtship._—The average person believes that courtship ends when the
minister brushes the bride’s cheek with his ecclesiastical lips. And this
belief is the rock on which marriage founders. The girl, once married,
is convinced that her life-work has been accomplished, so she ceases to
consider her new husband. How many young girls are there who would come
down to entertain her beau for the evening with frowsy hair, and in an
untidy house dress? Not one. When a young man is coming to call, the
girl primps and dresses in her most becoming frocks. She fixes her hair
smartly, powders, and looks as alluring as possible when she opens the
door for him. One year after they are married, the man comes in after a
weary day’s work and finds a dowdy woman, with wisps of hair streaking an
unpowdered face, through which a shiny nose gleams like a beaconlight.
When the beau comes wooing, the young girl sees that the living room is
neat and dusted. When the young husband returns in the evening, papers
may be lying about everywhere, the furniture undusted, and a general air
of unkemptness may prevail. We do not say this is universally true.
Fortunately it is not. But it has a wide enough prevalence to be worthy
of discussion. These same women complain bitterly that their husbands
come home and bury themselves in the paper, or do not come home at all,
or pay more heed to their business than to their wives. True, and can you
blame them? Far better to fasten their eyes upon neat black print than
upon a frowsy woman. It is this sort of carelessness that sends men to
billiard parlors, to poker games and to other women.
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