Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to womenGoddard, Gloria
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Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to women
Goddard, Gloria
Married women -- Psychology; Women -- Social and moral questions
When a girl enters adolescence, it is imperative that her mother tell
her frankly and without shame all of the details and practices of sexual
life. Knowledge is the best protection that any girl can have. The duty
of the wise parents is to enlighten their children fully about the
possible ways before them, and what good or ill will be won by following
each. The girl who has a thorough comprehension of these facts may be
depended upon in the majority of cases to decide far more wisely and
constructively problems connected with the sexual urge, than the girl who
is reared in blindness and receives such information as she gathers from
doubtful sources, thick with the slime of evil minds.
_Love Education._—The adolescent and the young woman will find this
information too elementary to be satisfactory. Love is more than a matter
of human psychology and its functioning. It is a very subtle art. There
must be, ultimately, education in the art of love. The savage races all
believed in this. The ceremonies of initiation that were held at the time
of puberty of the young men and women, were merely the culmination of an
education in love-making that was given frankly and openly in all the
tribe. These practices still prevail among such tribes as have evaded the
missionaries.
The average man or woman, barring such stray and frequently fouled hints
as he receives from friends and companions equally ignorant, enters upon
marriage with no understanding of what he is called upon to do. When the
daughter of a nice respectable family marries, she is, presumably at
least, a virgin. The young man may or may not be; the assumption being
that he is not. His sexual knowledge has been gained through prostitutes
and “common girls.” More often he has no idea what to do. The girl, we
repeat, is virginal. She is not supposed to have any but the most vague
ideas on the subject. If the girl really has no knowledge of men, she is
shy. Naturally, the largest part of the burden falls upon the man. But
the girl should know in advance what sex means. If she does know, it will
do a great deal to dissipate her unnecessary shyness.
We repeat, love is an art. The girl must realize that she may suffer a
tremendous shock which will render her frigid for life. Medical records
are black with the countless cases where the experiences of the nuptial
night have wrecked the whole subsequent content of the woman, and
in extreme cases, her reason. Young wives who commit suicide on the
honeymoon are frequently so impelled by the man’s initial and usually
quite unconscious brutality. Love is an art, calling for infinite tact on
the part of both the man and the woman.
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