Woman thus sees humanity as a collection of individuals of whom no two
are identical, growing separately like trees in a common direction,
expressing in visible forms, each of which is significant, a common
unseen life. If one may use a rough symbolism, women see humanity in
vertical lines, while men see it in horizontal strata. The perfection
of each individual is women’s business, and the combination of
individuals into social systems is man’s business. These two aspects
of life are necessarily continuous and inseparable: the difference
between them here, as throughout, is one of emphasis. Women emphasise
the wholeness of the individual in himself; men, the relation of the
individual to his neighbours. It follows that women cannot disregard
or eliminate anything which manifests itself in the life of the
individual. Man resembles a tree only by analogy; he cannot be lopped
of his branches; he can achieve strength and harmony only by carrying
everything with him. Nothing is accidental or superfluous in his
behaviour; virtues and vices are alike significant. From this point of
view whatever prevents the harmony of the complete individual is bad;
but it cannot be cut off, it must be fused into the whole, if possible.
Woman therefore cannot shirk any issue or turn from the investigation
of any human impulse, whatever its nature. She believes in the
significance and continuity of all that life which passes into human
consciousness, and to her goodness and badness are relative terms,
depending on the nature of the immediate problem. Thus she cannot
believe in original sin, although she recognises mistakes. Man, on
the other hand, believes in the significance of his systems which cut
across life horizontally, and he desires to fit the individual into his
patterns. Whatever disrupts his patterns is bad and must be cut off.
This condition naturally is uniform in its operation, and therefore
badness is a constant quantity, something definite which can be written
down in a code of prohibitions. Nonconformity with the law is original
sin, and arouses his indignation. But as there are many systems, each
system has its own code of offences and penalties, and each casts out
its own offenders. The Church excommunicates them, the State imprisons
them, Society boycotts them, professional bodies expel them; they are
dishonoured and ignored, thrust out of the system whose stability they
threaten. We penetrate to the very heart of the difference between men
and women when we observe that the outcast, whose individuality is
formally denied by his fellows, remains none the less an individual to
the women who love him. Obviously a morality which satisfies the one
point of view does not satisfy the other.
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