This systematic morality with its impersonal judgments, its definite
codes, its uniformly graded punishments, and its unquestioning
repudiation of the offender is a logical pendant to the systems which
men create. It is precisely what is usually called conventional
morality, and it is essentially masculine in its attitude to the
individual. Women, if they are to create free and harmonious
individuals, cannot sacrifice an individual to a code; they cannot
agree that goodness is only the fear of punishment; they cannot believe
in the efficacy of external punishment, and they cannot permit the
offender to be cut off. To the creative woman an offender is a question
which she must try to answer. Her morality must be psychological rather
than punitive, personal rather than impersonal, and fundamentally
religious. It is clear that many actions which systematic morality
considers bad must appear good to the creative woman, and inversely
what she considers good must often be condemned by systematic morality.
Women must therefore create their own independent moral values. It may
be objected that if each woman creates her own morality the result will
be confusion. This objection, however, arises out of a misapprehension.
It is not the business of women to condemn or to punish, or to exact
conformity with any definite code of conduct: it is their business to
understand the processes at work in the human soul and to help each
individual to the fullest and most harmonious expression of his powers.
There will always be enough men in the world to secure the existence
of systematic morality; any confusion produced by the action of women
will be only the rich confusion of life itself. Besides, creative love
is not mere sympathy or even affection; if women cannot sacrifice
an individual to a code they are equally unable to sacrifice their
intuitions about the human race to an individual. Creative love demands
a high discipline from those who would exercise it.
VII
The first condition that is required from women is that they shall
know themselves. A woman who is ignorant of her own weaknesses cannot
help others, for she is incapable of correcting distortions caused
by her own fear or anger. The conventional woman hangs conventional
ideas between herself and her own nature, thus negating her deepest
instincts. She despises and represses part of her own humanity;
consequently she has a repressive instead of a fostering effect on
other people. Women must therefore be frankly sincere with themselves
if they are to be creative, and must make allowances for their own
faults in dealing with others. One can only mete out to others the
measure one has already meted to oneself.
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