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It is therefore legitimate to consider the composite picture of
woman presented to us by the beliefs and opinions recorded by men.
These opinions are curiously contradictory and at the same time
generalised. In spite of the intense interest felt in individual
women, generalisations about women are common, whereas generalisations
about men are made warily, if at all. Men are fellow-creatures of many
different kinds: conclusions are drawn about classes of men, such as
kings, statesmen, or warriors, angry men, foolish men, or strangers;
but nothing less than a universal attribute of humanity is attached
to all men, such as that men are mortal, or subject to Fate, or
inconstant. But it is seriously believed by Moslems that women have no
souls. Thousands of Christians believe that women are not intelligent.
Mystics believe that women are on a lower plane of spiritual
development than men. Women have no sense of justice, no sense of
honour: women cannot be trusted with political power: women are all the
better for a good beating with a stick. These generalisations reflect
man as the dominant sex, conscious of his superiority. But one comes
at once upon contradictions. Every great man has been inspired by some
woman. The hand that rocks the cradle indisputably rules the world. A
woman was the first cause of original sin, but a woman was the Mother
of God. What does this mean? Half of the picture is tinged with vague
contempt, and the other half with vague reverence. Apparently the
average man sees woman alternately as an inferior being and as an angel.
One must conclude that he is looking at her through a distorting
medium. His conception of her as an inferior being is natural, in a
man-made State, and were she really inferior it would stop there.
His vague reverence for her remains to prevent this conclusion: it is
certainly a compensation for something, a distorted recognition of
some half-guessed-at power in women. It looks as if man knows that
the inferiority of woman is a fiction, that his domination of her and
his refusal to admit her to his own level are not justified. In the
background there lurks a fear of reprisals. The distorting medium
contains fear as one of its elements.
In men’s societies of a primitive or arrested type where the etiquette
of conduct betrays its origin, one can see clearly man’s fear of
woman. Woman possesses some mysterious power which must be averted
by elaborate taboos. A woman can ruin a man’s chances of success in
hunting or fishing by touching his gear. A woman’s shadow can blight a
religious ceremony. Women are particularly to be feared when they are
menstruating or in childbed. The most terrible ghost is that of a woman
who dies in childbed. In more developed societies men burn old crones
as witches in possession of the evil eye. And even to-day, especially
in politics, men find it difficult to rid themselves of the uneasy
suspicion that women are dangerous.
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