But motherhood was smirched with original sin. Later on it was still
further belittled. Women were regarded as mere receptacles, passive
receptive bodies which created nothing. Men must have felt that
motherhood was important, or they would not have tried to explain it
away altogether. But the sentimental ideal of woman as the mother
still persisted, especially among men, and could not be explained
away: so, finally, motherhood was allowed by popular opinion to be a
creative function, but of a purely physical nature, and it was further
defined as the sole justifiable function of women. Mr. Rudyard Kipling
expressed this very neatly when he said that blind Nature made man for
several ends and woman for only one. In Oriental countries the still
more logical conclusion is drawn that women justify their existence
only by producing men-children. In a society committed to this point
of view childless women are failures in life, and the unmarried woman
is a ridiculous nuisance. If social remedies such as polygamy, suttee,
infanticide, or euthanasia are not put into practice, the phrase
“superfluous women” comes into existence, and the State is shaken by
the problem of what to do with its superfluous women.
II
Yet if motherhood can be defined, rightly or wrongly, as the sole
function of women, it must be a function which in some degree expresses
the quality of womanhood as distinct from manhood. Even in this
artificially narrowed field of activity one should be able to find some
clue to the essential nature of women. It is therefore advisable first
of all to compare motherhood and fatherhood.
Fatherhood seems the more casual relationship of the two. It cannot be
proved with the same certainty as motherhood. In a masculine State,
where the father is the only legal parent, the institution of marriage
is necessary to prevent fathers from successfully disclaiming their
children. Maternity is not so easily denied, and in a feminine State
it could be proved without the aid of a marriage contract. Where the
mother is the sole legal parent civil marriage is unnecessary. Hence,
as the Vaertings point out, bastardy is unknown in a feminine State. A
mother’s connection with her child is more obvious and immediate than a
father’s. A man can be a parent without knowing it: a woman cannot.
Motherhood is also a greater tax on vital energy than fatherhood, even
if we take motherhood merely as a physical function. The process of
bearing a child culminates in a crisis which exhausts a woman’s energy:
to such an extent, indeed, that women often die of it. Moreover, it is
a process which, once initiated, is not under conscious control, so
that the reserve of energy drawn upon is not deliberately assigned to
this purpose by its owner. It is not at her free disposal to grant or
to withhold; it cannot be exhausted by an act depending on conscious
volition. The race in this respect is stronger than the individual.
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