Women in English Life from Mediæval to Modern Times, Vol. IHill, Georgiana
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Women in English Life from Mediæval to Modern Times, Vol. I
Hill, Georgiana
Women -- Great Britain; Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
“If this be thought an exaggerated portrait, drawn with the inaccuracy
of hasty observation and coloured by prejudice, the same cannot be
said with regard to the pen of Fielding, who, in “Tom Jones,” reflects
popular opinion and represents the standard of the day. A young fellow,
named Nightingale, who has betrayed his landlady’s daughter, is thus
addressed by his uncle:--
“Honour is a creature of the world’s making, and the world has
the power of a creator over it, and may govern and direct it as
they please. Now, you well know how trivial these breaches of
contract are thought: even the grossest make but the wonder and
conversation of the day. Is there a man who afterwards will be
more backward in giving you his sister or daughter, or is there
any sister or daughter who would be more backward to receive
you? Honour is not concerned in these engagements.”
It will be remembered how “Squire Western,” when he heard that “Tom
Jones” had betrayed a village girl, laughed at the episode as a good
joke, and called upon his daughter to bear him out that women would
think no worse of a young fellow for that. As for “Sophia” herself, it
proved no serious check on her passion.
And yet England was said to be the country where offences against women
were punished with the greatest severity, and where, if a man wished to
find an unlawful partner, he must search among those whose poverty made
them ready victims to temptation.
It cannot be doubted that women of the middle classes were accustomed
to expect a lower standard of morality among men than at the present
day. The novels of the last century show that what are now deemed as
grave offences were then considered mere peccadilloes. Drinking and
swearing were foibles too common to excite notice, and breaches of the
moral code were easily condoned. The women were not so prone themselves
as might have been thought to the sins which they tolerated, but they
were brought up in the belief that a larger licence should be allowed
to men. The same tendency is apparent now in circles where the women
take little or no share in the occupations of their husbands and
brothers, and where the interests are totally different. The women,
who are the most ready to be lenient where they should be severe,
set up different standards of morality for the sexes, and draw a
dividing-line between masculine and feminine virtues and vices.
What greatly impressed Frenchmen was the seriousness of English wives,
and their sober, chaste lives.
“Au milieu des débordemens, souvent poussés à l’excès, dans
cette grande ville, il est bien rare de voir la corruption
attaquer une femme mariée, et chercher à lui faire partager ses
infames plaisirs. Elle trouve un rempart insurmontable dans son
amour pour sa famille, les soins de son ménage, et sa gravité
naturelle. Je soutiens même qu’il n’y a pas de ville dans le
monde où l’honneur des maris soit moins en danger qu’à Londres.”
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