Women in English Life from Mediæval to Modern Times, Vol. IHill, Georgiana
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Women in English Life from Mediæval to Modern Times, Vol. I
Hill, Georgiana
Women -- Great Britain; Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
Another writes:--
“Le part qu’ont les femmes au sérieux et à la mélancolie
nationale en les rendant sédentaire, les attache à leurs maris,
à leurs enfans, et à leur ménage.”
Le Blanc remarks, with a touch of wounded vanity--
“Most of those who among us pass for men of good fortune in
amours, would with difficulty succeed in addressing an English
fair. She would not sooner be subdued by the insinuating
softness of their jargon than by the amber with which they are
perfumed.”
Naturally a Frenchman thought his own countrywomen more attractive--
“The women in France are not so reserved as in England; but we
find charms in their company which those of this country have
not. The one, by their awkwardness, have the defect of making
virtue itself disagreeable; the others, more engaging, have
often the pernicious art of making vice seem amiable.”
There were those who complained that in France--
“women have too much boldness, and are scarcely women. The
continual commerce between the sexes causes, as it were, an
exchange of characters which makes each sex derogate something
from its proper character. They (the women) drink hard at
table, and do it agreeably. They understand gaming as well as
men. They go a-hunting with men, and come so near to men in
everything that they are scarcely women.”
What would have been thought of the modern Englishwoman who rides to
hounds, wears masculine, tailor-made clothes, and shares the serious
occupations as well as the amusements of the male sex, it is needless
to discuss. In the last century pursuits that are now quite common,
and pass without notice, were thought extravagantly fast, while our
ancestors tolerated a licence of manners and speech that we, in our
turn, should repudiate.
There was considerable difference between the manners and habits of
town dwellers and those living in the country. An article in _The
Female Spectator_, in 1745, recounts a country lady’s experiences on
her first visit to London, and her amazement at the habits of London
folk. She went to call on an old acquaintance with whom she had at one
time been extremely intimate:--
“It was between eleven and twelve when I came to her door,
where, after knocking a considerable time, a footman with his
nightcap on, and pale as just risen from the dead, came yawning
forth, and on my asking for his lady, ‘O Gad, madam,’ drawled
he out, ‘we had a racquet here last night, and my lady cannot
possibly be stirring these three hours.’ I wondered what had
happened, but would not ask any questions of the fellow, and
only left my name and said I would wait on her at a more proper
time.”
The lady returns about three o’clock, after shopping and dining, and
thus describes her visit:--
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