Women in English Life from Mediæval to Modern Times, Vol. IHill, Georgiana
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Women in English Life from Mediæval to Modern Times, Vol. I
Hill, Georgiana
Women -- Great Britain; Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
Merchants and bankers, in spite of the cares of business, took
life very easily, spending the first part of the morning in the
coffee-houses, and, after a couple of hours at the Exchange, going home
to dinner at four o’clock.
The manners and customs of the eighteenth century accentuated the
differences of sex, and set up artificial barriers between men and
women. Foreigners, because they heard politics constantly discussed,
and forming the chief interest of the citizen’s life, and because they
saw the wife acquiesce in her husband’s views, concluded that politics
proved a strong bond of union in family life.
“Cet intérêt repand dans le domestique un nouvel agrément: le
mari y trouvant toujours quelqu’un avec qui il peut traiter à
cœur ouvert, aussi longuement et aussi profondement que bon lui
semble, les objets qui l’interessent le plus.”
As has been noted elsewhere, interest in politics--especially politics
which dealt in personalities--was keen enough among the women of
the aristocracy, for the game was being largely played by their own
friends, but the women of the middle classes were generally indifferent
to public affairs. Except on occasions of great public excitement,
the City madam, the country squire’s lady, and the farmer’s wife knew
little of what was stirring in the world of statecraft. They lumped
together politics and pipes as part of the men’s amusements with which
they had no direct concern. They shared their husbands’ views because
they had none of their own, and it was not worth while troubling their
heads about such matters as changes of Ministry, Bills in Parliament,
and so forth.
Occupations and habits caused men and women to lead separate lives.
Hard riding and hard drinking were the recreations of the country
squire; the farmer had his out-door duties; the tradesman had his
apprentices to superintend; the shopkeeper had no suburban residence,
and was a shopkeeper all day long while the shutters were open. The
wife occupied herself with her store-cupboard, her linen-press, and her
kitchen, and gossiped in her parlour with neighbours over a dish of tea.
“The English,” wrote Le Blanc, “lose a great deal in conversing
so little with the sex whom Nature has endowed with the graces,
and whose company has constant charms and a certain sweetness
not to be found in that of men. The conversation of women
polishes and softens our behaviour; by the habit we acquire
of endeavouring to please them, we contract a tone of voice
equally agreeable to both sexes....
“The custom of living with what is most valuable in both sexes,
makes the pleasure and happiness of life.... And ’tis by too
much neglecting this custom that the English have a certain
disagreeable bluntness in their character.”
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