Women in English Life from Mediæval to Modern Times, Vol. IHill, Georgiana
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Women in English Life from Mediæval to Modern Times, Vol. I
Hill, Georgiana
Women -- Great Britain; Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
To the French it seemed odd and unnatural to see English parents
sending their children off to boarding-schools, or to be educated
abroad at the convent schools of Paris. In France young girls were kept
at home with their mothers much more than in England.
“Les parens se débarassent de leurs enfans,” writes La Combe in
his “Tableau de Londres,” “en les jettant au hazard dans des
pensions ou des académies. Ils semblent rougir de voir leurs
enfans se former sous leurs yeux; ils prefèrent des étrangers,
qui n’ont ni attachement ni la connaissance des passions des
enfans qu’on leur confie, et les elévent tous avec indifférence
sur le même plan. Il serait plus raisonnable d’avoir les enfans
chez soi, d’étudier leur goût, leur penchant, de les façonner
peu à peu par la douceur et les caresses, à la docilité au
travail, à l’honnêteté et de les familiariser insensiblement
avec tout ce qu’ils doivent savoir un jour et pratiquer dans la
société. On est étonné, à Paris surtout, lorsqu’on voit arriver
de jeunes Anglaises dans les couvents. Quoi? dit on, les mœurs
sont donc bien corrompues à Londres pour nous charger d’élever
les demoiselles.”
As the century grew older the habits and amusements of the leisured
classes spread to the trading community.
“I will not presume to say that all the misfortunes the city of
London at present labours under are owing to their preposterous
fondness of following the fashions of the court; but that they
are in a great measure so I believe most people will readily
enough agree to.”[68]
Speaking of a City dame who had taken up with the fashions of the
West-end, the same writer observed--
“A great courtier now become, she looks with contempt on her
former fellow-citizens, joins in the laugh coquets and beaus
set up whenever any of them appear, and sees not that herself
is equally an object of ridicule to those she is so vain of
imitating. Thus despising and despised without one real friend,
she lives a gawdy, glittering, worthless member of society,
and endured by those whose example has rendered her such, on no
other account than that immense wealth which they find means
to share with her, while she imagines they are doing her an
honour.”
The busy merchants and traders whose wives were so eager to be in the
fashion were themselves no less anxious to be up to the times.
“I do not but see that the men are as eager to quit their
compting houses and strut in the drawing-room disguised in a
long sword and taper wig as the women can be in a new brocade,
exactly the same pattern with that of one of the Princesses.
The infection has spread itself pretty equally through both
sexes. And the husband has little to reproach the wife with, or
the wife the husband, but what each are guilty of in the same
degree.”
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