Women in English Life from Mediæval to Modern Times, Vol. IHill, Georgiana
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Women in English Life from Mediæval to Modern Times, Vol. I
Hill, Georgiana
Women -- Great Britain; Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The great lady of the eighteenth century is always, so to speak, in
full dress. She seems to live in and for society, to be the leading
figure in a great show. It is difficult to think of her except with a
train and an elaborate _coiffure_, with her fan and smelling-bottle
and her grand manner _en princesse_. The elaboration of life in the
fashionable world, the affectations of speech and manner, and the
imposing costumes surround her with an air of artificiality. Though
she might be an ardent politician or a brilliant wit, though she might
achieve fame in the world of letters, she lived in a narrow circle.
The great social movements of the country were as nothing to her. The
history of the classes below her own had no meaning for her mind. Court
intrigues, political changes, were events of moment; they were part
of her world; she knew no other. Her outlook was limited to personal
interests and ambitions. The accident of birth gave her a part to play
in the affairs of the world. And she played it like a great lady, whose
proper business is pleasure. She flirted, intrigued, and cajoled;
suffered herself to be alternately flattered and neglected when she
wanted a place at court or to worm out some political secret for a
friend. But of the healthy, broad interest which regards the politics
of to-day, both home and foreign, as the history of the morrow, she
was generally devoid.
The great lady of the eighteenth century, unless she happened to
be gifted with exceptional breadth of view, was indifferent--often
contemptuously indifferent--to matters outside her own fashionable
circle. Her education and the temperament of the age fostered this
feeling. She had not the domestic responsibilities of women of a lower
grade, or of great ladies of former times. In their place she was
offered the distractions of society. One by one her duties had fallen
away from her. Domestic occupations did not form part of the _rôle_
of a great lady then any more than at the present time. The altered
conditions of life gave her leisure; the increase of luxury begat a
distaste for exertion. There was a great deal of licence of manners
allowed to women, but little real freedom. They could not venture out
of the beaten track without incurring ridicule, and possibly insult. In
all the relations of life they were made to feel they were dependent
beings. As daughters they had the inferior portion, and no profession
but marriage. As wives they had nothing at all of their own, not even
their children--a condition only remedied late in the present century.
But the lack of all interest in their children, which was said to be a
characteristic of the French nobility, was not so marked in England. In
France it was considered very _bourgeois_ to be surrounded by a family.
Husbands and wives commonly lived independent lives. “Une mariage uni
devient une anomalie dans le grand monde, un manque de goût.”[69]
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