Women wanted: The story written in blood red letters on the horizon of the Great World WarDaggett, Mabel Potter
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Women wanted: The story written in blood red letters on the horizon of the Great World War
Daggett, Mabel Potter
Women -- Employment; World War, 1914-1918 -- Women
Let us see. You would have been astounded, I believe, if Elsa von
Stuttgart had attempted to dictate to her husband his hats or his
slippers. Anyway, Herr von Stuttgart would. You would not have
expected Edith Russell to have suggested across the breakfast table:
“My dear, the propaganda of such and such a society to which you belong
is not pleasing to me. I do not care to have you support it.” Why,
either gentleman would have been a henpecked husband to have permitted
any such interference with his personal liberty. Not even in America
would any wife so presume to dare. It is quite likely that a lady
living in New York could announce over the coffee cups, “My dear, we
will move to Long Island to-day.” And the voice behind the newspaper
would probably agree without a demurrer, “I’ll be out on the 4:30
train.” Probably also he has never heard how many pairs of slippers she
has, and all he knows about her hats is their price. But after all, it
is only by the privilege he permits her that the lady can put it over
like this. At any moment that he cares to assert it, he still holds the
balance of power in this household.
Because man and wife are one, he who carries the purse is the one. It’s
only the new purse in the family that can alter the situation anywhere
in the world. She who carries it is another one, with her personal
liberty too. In the last analysis, it is only a person who can pay the
rent who can talk with assertion about where “we” shall live and how.
No economist in any university chair understands this any more clearly
than does Mrs. Webber, who once lived in two rooms and now lives in
three _because she can pay the rent_! The new purse in her family
has raised the whole scale of living for her and for her children.
Yesterday her personality was merged and submerged in that of a
husband to whose standard of maintenance she was limited. To-day she
is emerging with a wage envelope in her hand and a personality of her
own, as is likewise Elsa von Stuttgart and Edith Russell and Madelaine
de Ranier. Society may be tremendously startled to find them at last
counted so that one and one in the marriage relation shall make two.
When in this great world war, that autocracy with its divine right of
kings that has ruled and wrecked civilisation shall have been swept
from the throne, there is another autocracy with its “divine” authority
of one sex over the other that is going into the scrap-heap of old
systems.
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