Women wanted: The story written in blood red letters on the horizon of the Great World WarDaggett, Mabel Potter
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Women wanted: The story written in blood red letters on the horizon of the Great World War
Daggett, Mabel Potter
Women -- Employment; World War, 1914-1918 -- Women
How “we” shall live and love together, is the question for
consultation. And there is statute and dogma and custom and convention
and tradition to be done over. These have been handed down until they
are many of them past all usefulness. Some of them are moth-eaten and
quite outworn. None of them, please note this, gentlemen, none of
them is of her selection. Just think of that. There’s not a code in
the world that was formulated by a woman. The creeds that have come
from Rome and Wittenberg and Westminster were not even submitted for
woman’s inspection. And marriage was made for her by law courts and
church councils to which she was not even asked. There was not so much
as a by-your-leave to the lady, in the matter of her most intimate
personal concern. Oh, isn’t this clearly where the reconstruction of
civilisation shall commence?
MAKING OVER MARRIAGE
Only for the man in khaki to come home again it waits. Then with the
new woman, together at last, they can build the new world aright. For
never again shall we permit any such skewed and twisted and one-sided
job as that of the past. “Dear,” she will say, “you did it as well as
you could, probably, that old world. But the trouble was, that you did
it alone.”
And with a little whimsical smile, she’ll quote for him the old proverb
that “two heads are better than one.” Then perhaps they will walk in
the garden in the evening. And with her hand in his arm, she will speak
as she never could speak before—as a free woman who has found her soul!
There were things, I think, that God forgot when he talked to Moses and
to St. Paul. But now he’s told them to her.
Listen: “Marriage,” she will say, “marriage, dear, we must make over so
that it shall be something very sweet and very sacred.”
Oh, it wasn’t always that yesterday. There are women who know it
wasn’t. When a man could say to the woman the law gave to him, “Come
unto me to-night, or I shall not give you money with which to buy
shoes for the children to-morrow.” Or he may have said, “the slippers
for your pretty feet”—when marriage was that way, everything in it
divine just died! It shall never be so again.
Hear the new woman. “We shall have more love about marriage and less
law,” she will say. “And we shall never let them lock us in. Love
always laughed even yesterday at the clumsy locksmiths who thought
they had bolted and barred the Doll’s House with ordinance and ritual.
For how love cometh, we may not say, who are mute before so much as
the mystery of the tint of the rose or the perfume of the lilies in
June. Nor how love goeth, dare we define. Presumptuous mortals who have
thought to hold back love with law and enactment, have made of marriage
an empty form, echoing with the mockery of the happiness that fled.”
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