That there are people who succeed brilliantly and move from success to
success, amid an applauding crowd of friends and admirers, while others,
apparently their superiors in every way, are distanced in the race, is an
undeniable fact. You have but to glance around the circle of your
acquaintances and relations to be convinced of this anomaly. To a
reflecting mind the question immediately presents itself, Why is this?
General society is certainly cultivated enough to appreciate intelligence
and superior endowments. How then does it happen that the social
favorites are so often lacking in the qualities which at a first glance
would seem indispensable to success?
Before going any further let us stop a moment, and look at the subject
from another side, for it is more serious than appears to be on the
surface. To be loved by those around us, to stand well in the world, is
certainly the most legitimate as well as the most common of ambitions, as
well as the incentive to most of the industry and perseverance in life.
Aside from science, which is sometimes followed for itself alone, and
virtue, which we are told looks for no other reward, the hope which
inspires a great deal of the persistent efforts we see, is generally that
of raising one's self and those one loves by one's efforts into a sphere
higher than where cruel fate had placed them; that they, too, may take
their place in the sunshine and enjoy the good things of life. This
ambition is often purely disinterested; a life of hardest toil is
cheerfully borne, with the hope (for sole consolation) that dear ones
will profit later by all the work, and live in a circle the patient
toiler never dreams of entering. Surely he is a stern moralist who would
deny this satisfaction to the breadwinner of a family.
There are doubtless many higher motives in life, more elevated goals
toward which struggling humanity should strive. If you examine the
average mind, however, you will be pretty sure to find that success is
the touchstone by which we judge our fellows and what, in our hearts, we
admire the most. That is not to be wondered at, either, for we have done
all we can to implant it there. From a child's first opening thought, it
is impressed upon him that the great object of existence is to succeed.
Did a parent ever tell a child to try and stand last in his class? And
yet humility is a virtue we admire in the abstract. Are any of us
willing to step aside and see our inferiors pass us in the race? That is
too much to ask of poor humanity. Were other and higher standards to be
accepted, the structure of civilization as it exists to-day would crumble
away and the great machine run down.
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