In returning to my correspondent and her perfectly legitimate desire to
know the road to success, we must realize that to a large part of the
world social success is the only kind they understand. The great
inventors and benefactors of mankind live too far away on a plane by
themselves to be the object of jealousy to any but a very small circle;
on the other hand, in these days of equality, especially in this country
where caste has never existed, the social world seems to hold out
alluring and tangible gifts to him who can enter its enchanted portals.
Even politics, to judge by the actions of some of our legislators, of
late, would seem to be only a stepping-stone to its door!
"But my question," I hear my fair interlocutor saying. "You are not
answering it!"
All in good time, my dear. I am just about to do so. Did you ever hear
of Darwin and his theory of "selection?" It would be a slight to your
intelligence not to take it for granted that you had. Well, my
observations in the world lead me to believe that we follow there
unconsciously, the same rules that guide the wild beasts in the forest.
Certain individuals are endowed by nature with temperaments which make
them take naturally to a social life and shine there. In it they find
their natural element. They develop freely just where others shrivel up
and disappear. There is continually going on unseen a "natural
selection," the discarding of unfit material, the assimilation of new and
congenial elements from outside, with the logical result of a survival of
the fittest. Aside from this, you will find in "the world," as anywhere
else, that the person who succeeds is generally he who has been willing
to give the most of his strength and mind to that one object, and has not
allowed the flowers on the hillside to distract him from his path,
remembering also that genius is often but the "capacity for taking
infinite pains."
There are people so constituted that they cheerfully give the efforts of
a lifetime to the attainment of a brilliant social position. No fatigue
is too great, and no snubs too bitter to be willingly undergone in
pursuit of the cherished object. You will never find such an individual,
for instance, wandering in the flowery byways that lead to art or
letters, for that would waste his time. If his family are too hard to
raise, he will abandon the attempt and rise without them, for he cannot
help himself. He is but an atom working as blindly upward as the plant
that pushes its mysterious way towards the sun. Brains are not
necessary. Good looks are but a trump the more in the "hand." Manners
may help, but are not essential. The object can be and is attained daily
without all three. Wealth is but the oil that makes the machinery run
more smoothly. The all-important factor is the desire to succeed, so
strong that it makes any price seem cheap, and that can pay itself by a
step gained, for mortification and weariness and heart-burnings.
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