There are young men possessing all the capacities for a dignified and
manly conduct theirs, through the hard industry of others, are all the
qualifications of education and competence. They are surrounded with
circles offering every facility to happiness and pure enjoyment. And what
do these young men do with all this wealth of possession? I will sketch a
few of the courses into which they permit themselves to be seduced. One,
just out of his teens, affects a manly superiority; calls “the governor”
slow; orders his tailor to make garments in a “fast” fashion; cultivates
an elegant beard; secures a massive chain, and if possible, a splendid
ring. His boots are a very important item to his manliness; and then what
deliberation upon the color of his gloves, and the flexibility of his
cane! As he steps from the door of his plodding father, he puts a finish
to his appearance by lighting a cigar, and with a hat à la mode, walks
out, a ready prey for the painted woman, and an advertisement for men on
the look-out for unsophisticated manhood. I do not say that a young man
may not have a gold chain, and trousers made in the height of fashion,
if he likes—there is no religion in not having these things; but for the
sake of all that is manly, do not let a young man think that this is
to make a worthy use of life—to be a show thing to be looked at in the
streets.
But a young man may have higher aims; he may be somewhat literary in his
tastes; may have studied rules of etiquette, and may select associations
that are irreproachable. He permits his vanity, however, to grow into
a chronic craving for admiration. He affects insensibility to attract
attention; falls into the modern fashion of a supercilious apathy;
looks unimpassioned under the most eventful circumstances, and twirls
the points of his moustache with elegant _nonchalance_. Repudiating all
domestic and common interests, he becomes valueless to humanity. The most
beautiful emotions of man’s nature become frigid. His self-absorption
grows into a conceit which relieves others from the duty of considering
him. He never blesses, is never blessed. Ineffective in youth, unloved in
manhood, he becomes testy and splenetic in old age, and dies at length
unmissed and unmourned. And this is all he has made of a life that once
bore so much of promise.
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