Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training — John Shaqi
Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
look after his boys, to be companionable, or take an interest in them.
We have no more dangerous citizens than such men. In the end, I believe
such a man would profit more by less business and better boys.”
Parental laxness in the enforcement of discipline may be due to
indifference, obtuseness, or a false sense of affection which rebels
at stern correctional measures. Whatever may be the motive of the
parent, the effect on the child is the same. Obedience is largely a
matter of habit which becomes fixed, as do other habits, by continued
repetition. Dr. William Byron Forbush stated the thought in this
language: “In the American home, especially where there is not sore
poverty, the cause of delinquency in children is, without question, the
flabbiness and slovenliness of parents in training their children to
obedience and to orderly habits.”
Too often the training of the boy is shunted back and forth from father
to mother like a shuttlecock which is finally knocked out of bounds.
The father more frequently than the mother succeeds in evading the
obligation and thereafter he rarely attempts to interfere unless we
consider an occasional walloping of his son in anger the accomplishment
of his duty.
The average parent is not fully equipped for his job. He is either
unskilled or underskilled in boy-training. He needs education,
insight, and understanding to cope with the problems of his son.
If the parents default in the training of the boy--even through
ignorance--need we wonder that the boy defaults in the making of the
man?
Numerous boys attain the average perfection of manhood in spite of poor
training--but none of them because of it. Many a father, because his
son has turned out well, is wearing a self-imposed halo--when he is
only lucky.
CHAPTER III
CHILD PSYCHOLOGY
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