Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
The individualistic period between eight and twelve is the era in which
the boy regards himself as an individual not correlated to other
individuals of society. He is essentially selfish, and individualism is
his dominant characteristic. He has an excessive and exclusive regard
for his personal interests. The great world of men forming society
is beyond his perceptions. His thoughts chiefly concern himself and
seldom embrace others, except when they cause him pleasure, annoyance,
or pain. He recognizes them only as they contribute to his emotions.
This tendency manifests itself in the selfishness exhibited in play
and his unwillingness to perform the trifling services required of
him by his elders, if they in any way interfere with his present
enjoyment. Sociological consciousness, with its recognition of the
duties and obligations of the individual toward the mass of individuals
termed society, is still dormant. Its first awakening is seen in his
recognition of duty toward his family, and later toward his playmates
and friends, and last of all toward society--which is reached in the
reflective period. His mental horizon is bounded entirely by his own
activities and interests in which he is the central figure.
Carelessness, forgetfulness, and thoughtlessness of others are
incidents common to childhood which gradually wane and disappear at
the age when he enters the reflective period. As he lives in the
immediate present, he does not plan for the future--not even for the
morrow. Johnny comes home to supper from the playground, whirling
through the house with cyclonic energy and leaving a trail of gloves,
hat, overcoat, and superfluous garments in his wake, intent on the
only thing which is of absorbing interest to him at that moment--his
immediate presence at table to alleviate the excruciating pangs of
hunger which are gnawing at his vitals. Everything else is forgotten
in his efforts to satisfy the desires of the present. The next
morning, when preparations for school are begun, all remembrance of
the places where his wearing apparel was deposited is forgotten. Then
ensues the daily hunt for the missing garments, interspersed with
vociferous requests to all members of the household for assistance. The
interrogatory, “Where’s my hat?” is as common as oatmeal for breakfast.
Order and system have little place in a routine which is regulated by
present necessity.
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