Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
What benefit can children be but charges and disobedience? What’s the
love they render at one and twenty years? I pray die, father: when
they are young, they are like bells rung backwards, nothing but noise
and giddiness.
And from what a different vision-vantage were penned these lines,
overflowing with love and understanding of childhood, which are a model
of sympathetic comprehension of the child’s needs:
Delightful task! to rear the tender thought,
To teach the young idea how to shoot,
To pour fresh instruction o’er the mind,
To breathe the enlivening spirit and to fix
The generous purpose in the glowing breast!
--Thomson’s SEASONS.
To understand the boy’s viewpoint we must be able to put ourselves
in his place. We must renew our youth. The trouble with so many of
us is that we never acquire juvenescence until second-childhood. We
should be able to assign the boy to the psychological period to which
he belongs by reason of his development, and thus knowing the mental
and moral status of an inhabitant of that period, we are able to see
things through his glasses. The mental myopia and moral astigmatism of
youth will then be recognized as a defect of immaturity which training
and years will cure. Juvenility may be reacquired in maturity if we
string-halted adults would only seek rejuvenation at the fountain
of youthful understanding where we may obtain a flood of knowledge
concerning boy-life. The journey is apparently too long and too
difficult for the lazy or indifferent grown-up. The heart of a boy is
not worn on his sleeve. He reveals it only to those who command his
perfect confidence and such confidence is given to those, and to those
only, who understand him. The aloofness of children toward certain
adults is because they have nothing in common. Each misunderstands the
other. As it is obviously impossible for the child to understand and
attune himself to adult mental processes, it becomes necessary for the
adult to comprehend child-nature and to put himself in harmony with it.
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