Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
Her solicitude for the child’s moral welfare is as commendable as it
is necessary and her desire to prevent such incidents from becoming
a habit is praiseworthy. Her methods, only, are wrong. Instead of
punishment the child is entitled to instruction which will develop
his mentality until he can distinguish between fact and fancy. With
growth in mental stature comes coördination of ideas and a clearer
discernment of the line of demarcation between the real and the unreal,
and when the child becomes mentally able to distinguish between the
two, such misstatements of fact will be at an end. Falsehood in
young children has been characterized by Dr. Hall as “a new mental
combination independent of experience.”
In rare cases this mental fog continues, with diminishing intensity,
through maturity. Everyone knows of the man who told a story so often
that he himself finally believed it. It chiefly manifests itself in
adults in exaggeration of the qualities, abilities, or prowess of the
teller. Witness the fisherman of your acquaintance whose account of the
weight and size of his biggest fish grows with each succeeding recital.
He does not mean to lie. He thinks he is telling the truth. In the
beginning he justified his exaggeration of weight and size by doubting
the accuracy of the scale and rule by which he weighed and measured
the fish. The continued repetition of his yarn produced an impression
on his brain closely resembling actuality. He deceived himself. Pride
in his piscatorial prowess made deception easy. His error was partly
mental, partly moral, the latter being in direct ratio to the clarity
of his mental processes. It is a tremendous tribute to the mental
stability and moral discernment of a fisherman to be able to refrain,
in after years, from overstating the weight of his biggest fish.
We now consider another phase of misstatement of fact--the falsehood
of the older boy. At the age of six or seven the mental fog begins to
clear. He sees things in a truer, brighter light. The relationship
of facts to each other becomes more and more cognizable. His moral
faculties are emerging from a chaos of mental impressions. This age,
approximately, marks the birth of moral consciousness. His conception
of right and wrong takes form and begins its process of development.
At this period he begins to distinguish between fact and fancy and
as his mental processes become clarified by increasing maturity, so
in a corresponding degree his confusion of the unreal with the real
disappears. Mentality begins to dominate imagination.
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