Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training — John Shaqi
Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
All parents at some time, and some parents at all times, regard boys
as necessary evils, to be endured with varying degrees of patience. We
formerly believed that boys should be seldom seen and less frequently
heard. The young barbarian was and is now tolerated for the time being
because of our hope that he will outgrow his rowdyism. We are disposed
to let nature take its course with the juvenile savage instead of
bothering our heads with the effort to understand him or to solve
his problems. But to train the boy intelligently we must first train
ourselves so that we can understand him and guide him through the
various stages of his development.
Intelligent training is the birthright of every child. If he has
not received it, he has been cheated. The training of the child
up to perfect maturity is the highest duty as well as the most
difficult task which devolves upon parents. The performance of this
duty is, fortunately, lightened by the pleasure of association with
the joyousness of childhood, but the real reward of the parent for
years of patient, watchful, intelligent supervision is not only the
consciousness of duty well done but the profound joy experienced in
aiding the unfoldment of an immortal soul.
The study of childhood possesses a fascination for the student
commensurate with its importance to humanity. It is both easier and
pleasanter to study the child in the concrete than children in the
abstract. But it is obvious that no comprehensive conclusions on
the subject of child-training can be deduced from the study of a
single child. The varying manifestations of different natures and
temperaments require wide observation, covering many subjects, before
correct conclusions as to cause and effect can be drawn or a systematic
philosophy can be evolved. We must study the concrete boy in large
numbers to be able to formulate abstract principles of boy-training.
“The proper study of mankind is man,” may be paraphrased into “the
proper study of boykind is boy.” Today we know the boy better than ever
before. He has been studied, watched, weighed, analyzed, synthesized,
tested, classified and labeled in all his varied aspects. We have
transformed our personal knowledge of him into scientific knowledge;
and various manifestations of his activities which were formerly called
“pure cussedness” are now recognized as ebullitions of superabundant
vitality which have been denied a natural outlet and therefore find
expression in prohibited forms.
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