Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
It must be apparent that morals cannot be acquired by committing
to memory a set of rules, but are unconsciously fashioned by every
influence which strikes the impressionistic and receptive character of
youth and leaves its indelible imprint for good or evil throughout the
life of the individual. Character is formed during the short period of
boyhood. It is, therefore, of superlative importance that all character
forming influences to which the boy is subjected, including his
reading, shall be of the best and highest type.
Ideal companions for our sons are more difficult to find in real
life than in fiction. The perfect boy may live somewhere--but not
in my immediate neighborhood. The companions of our boy are usually
worse than he--at any rate we think them so; if one is good-natured
he may be a bully; if another is of high moral character he may be
so lazy and untidy that his influence is unwholesome; a third may
be untruthful, while still another may be so goody-goody that his
influence is positively depressing. But in the carefully selected
literature of today may be found suitable companions for your son--the
heroes who exemplify in the achievement of enterprises of adventure
and daring the virtues which all boys should seek to emulate. Manly
models are unconsciously copied. From the intimate companionship with
such heroes gained by reading, the boy obtains inspiration for bravery,
truth, obedience, honor, loyalty, industry, manliness, courtesy, and
ambition. Chumming with virtue inspires virtue.
“There is a world,” says Walter Taylor Field, “into which children may
enter and find noble companionship. It is the world of books. Let your
boy escape for a time from the meanness of the boy across the street,
and let him roam the woods with Hiawatha, sail the seas with Sindbad,
build stockades with Crusoe, fight dragons with Jason, joust with
Galahad; let him play at quoits with Odysseus, and at football with Tom
Brown. These are playmates who will never quarrel with him nor bully
him, but from whom he will learn to be brave, self-reliant, manly,
quick to do for others, and set with his face toward the light.” The
character-building qualities of such books are as unquestioned as their
intellectual value.
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