Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
The entire subject is of tremendous moment and worthy of the careful
study, thought, and judgment of parents and scientists for the
formulation of a future policy which can adequately cope with this
great problem.
In a report of the Special Committee of the American Federation for Sex
Hygiene on the matter and methods of sex-education this recommendation
is made: “Your committee would emphasize the necessity of good judgment
and tact in introducing sex-instruction into schools. It should
not be introduced prematurely, but only so fast as teachers can be
found or trained who are competent to give it, and so fast as public
sentiment will support it. On the other hand, undue weight must not
be given to the difficulties attending such instruction even under
present conditions, inasmuch as even occasional mistakes will do far
less harm than allowing children to continue to gain this knowledge,
as many of them now do, from impure sources--receiving a pernicious
first impression which induces in them an attitude of mind toward the
subject that makes it extremely difficult later to give them the best
instruction. In not a few such cases subsequent sound teaching is
practically fruitless.”
CHAPTER XVI
AN OUTLINE OF SEX-INSTRUCTION
The limitations of this chapter will prevent more than a mere outline
of the periods in a child’s life when sex-information should be
imparted and the character of it. Familiarity with the boy’s psychology
given in Chapters III and IV will be of value in its application. From
birth until the child is six years old--the prescholastic age--he
is at home under the care and guidance of his mother, excluding the
kindergarten which is attended by a small proportion of children.
During this period the mother’s chief concern should be the hygienic
care of the child’s body and the prevention of danger which may come
from an injudicious or immoral nurse. The only sex-instruction
should be a simple answer to his question as to the origin of human
life--usually prompted by the birth of a baby whom he has seen or of
whom he has heard. This may be done by the statement that God sent it
in a human basket and the doctor delivered it, or other phraseology
which carries the same import and will satisfy his curiosity for the
time being until another inquiry is made. It is desirable to remember
that the child up to approximately ten years of age will continue these
interrogatories to his mother from time to time and that whenever he
ceases to make such inquiries it is evidence that he believes he has
obtained full information on the subject either from parental or from
outside sources.
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