Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
The mother, not the father, should begin the sex-education of her son.
The most effective method of imparting sex-information is by what is
called the biological approach. At age seven or eight the foundation
for sex-instruction should be laid by information concerning plant
production; that the pollen dust of the father plant becomes attached
to the legs of the honey-seeking bee and is transferred to the mother
plant, where it fertilizes the seed from which a baby plant grows. The
function of the wind, also, in effecting the conjunction of pollen with
the ovule of the stigma should be explained; and how the pollen or male
principle fertilizes and gives life to the female ovule, making seed
from which a new plant is born.
Now by successive stages and in detail his mind should be directed
to the processes of reproduction in the lower forms of animal life,
such as fishes, snakes, and frogs; then to the higher forms of life
represented in birds and domestic fowl, and then to the still higher
form of mammals, and finally to reproduction in the human being,
emphasizing its biological and sacred aspects. The wonderful workings
of nature should be made predominant in explaining the reproduction of
the lower orders of life while the pure and spiritual phase of human
reproduction should be stressed. Coincident with the conclusion of such
instruction, there should be given a brief explanation of the functions
of the generative organs in the process of reproducing the species, the
injury of secret vice and the necessity for personal purity.
At this first sign of approaching puberty the father should assume
the duty of further instruction, which should now advise the boy of
the wonderful sexual changes about to take place in his body and the
new and powerful desires about to be awakened. The normal development
of adolescence should be pointed out and a warning sounded as to the
error of mistaking certain natural phenomena for the abnormal.
At the age of fifteen to sixteen the necessity arises for admonition
against sexual promiscuity and its relationship to the hygienic health
of the individual and its eugenic influence on coming generations.
During the entire period the note of personal purity should be sounded
by a strong appeal to his moral and religious sense.
Untold numbers of boys go wrong sexually through ignorance, who would
have kept to the paths of purity had they but known.
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