Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
The same authority gives the following résumé of his method of dealing
with the boys brought within the jurisdiction of his court: “In my
opinion the best way to reform a boy waywardly disposed is first to
understand him. You have got to get inside of him and see through
his eyes, understand his motives, have sympathy and patience with
his faults, just as far as you can, remembering that more can be
accomplished through love than by any other method. But I would not
have you misunderstand me. It has been well said that love without
justice is sentiment and weakness! We must be just. There is no justice
without love and yet we can judge in the light of both, forgetting
not firmness and the right of others. We cannot be just without the
exercise of patience and a plentiful supply of those higher qualities
of the soul which must be brought to bear if we are able to call out
the noblest impulses and the highest and most energetic forces of
a child. The juvenile court and the probation system simply supply
the machinery for doing this where heretofore such machinery was not
permitted by the law. We pursued the blind, brutal, incongruous methods
of recognizing a child as an irresponsible being in dealing with its
dollars and cents, and denied it the right of contracting even while
it was a minor, whereas when it came to offending against the law,
when its moral welfare, its very soul, was involved, we denied its
irresponsibility and placed it upon the same plane and in the same
category with an adult.”
Supplemental to the juvenile law is the adult delinquency law, now
on the statute books of certain states, which makes it a misdemeanor
for any parent or other person to encourage, cause, or by any act
contribute to the delinquency of a child, punishable by a fine not to
exceed $1,000 or by imprisonment not to exceed one year or by both
such fine and imprisonment; and the juvenile court is given exclusive
jurisdiction over such offenders. Such statutes are a complete
recognition of parental responsibility for many cases of juvenile
wrongdoing, such as visiting saloons to obtain beer for parents;
stealing coal from railroad yards; stealing brasses or appliances from
cars; breaking open cars and stealing goods, usually edibles, which are
taken home and used either with the tacit or express consent of the
parents; and many other thefts the fruits of which are shared directly
or indirectly by the parents.
From this class of depredations the boy graduates into burglary and
highway robbery. The adult delinquency law punishes such parents
and drives home the consciousness of their responsibility to their
children. Practically all delinquent boys who appear in our juvenile
courts have one or both parents delinquent--delinquent either in the
active, direct sense stated above, or in the passive, indirect sense of
indifference or ignorance whereby their sons do not receive the moral
training which is their birthright.
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