Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
Science
Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
The correction of astigmatism, myopia, and other defects of eyesight
(alarmingly prevalent among children) by supplying him with proper
eyeglasses uniformly results in better school grades as well as marked
improvement in cheerfulness. The evil effects of impaired hearing,
decayed teeth, and malnutrition on intellectual progress are also
noticeable. The backward, indolent boy should always have the advice
and assistance of the physician, the oculist, and the dentist before
he receives blame for either mental deficiency or laziness.
The effects of heredity and prenatal influence in determining the
character of the child have been, in the opinion of many investigators,
greatly overestimated by the popular mind. The causative influence of
training (and environment which is a part of training) is immeasurably
more potent in the upbuilding of strong moral qualities than heredity.
The records of the Children’s Aid Society of New York, covering more
than 38,000 children, many of whom are the offspring of drunken and
criminal fathers and dissolute mothers, show beyond cavil that a good
home with love and moral training will usually submerge hereditary
tendencies be they ever so vicious. A very large proportion of these
children of delinquent parents, stamped (according to the theory of
heredity) with rotten physiques and rottener characters, have, through
good training and good environment, developed into law-abiding and
useful citizens. Among them may be mentioned two governors of states,
two congressmen, four judges, one justice of the Supreme Court,
nine members of state legislatures, thirty-five lawyers, eighty-six
teachers, nineteen physicians, twenty-four ministers, sixteen
journalists, twenty-nine bankers, and countless farmers, mechanics,
clerks and business men. The theory of the “inherent depravity” of the
boy, whether attributed to heredity or to an act of God, is a rapidly
fading myth. The boy is inherently good--not bad.
First know your son and love him; then you will be able to help
him. When you come to know the boy--even the adolescent--he is an
exceedingly lovable creature; and his inherent potentialities for
future excellence should be our inspiration for such assistance as
will build them into perfect manhood.
Do not deceive yourself with the belief that your Johnny is different
from other boys and that therefore the principles of boy-psychology
have no application to him and to his problems. Diversities of
temperament and character differentiate individuals, but all boys
possess a common nature whose evolution progresses according to fixed
laws. Idiosyncrasies and abnormalities of character are of slow growth.
They do not erupt suddenly like the measles. It must be obvious, on
consideration, that no simple panacea can be found for the speedy
cure of such complex and diverse diseases of character. Good training
and wholesome environment supplied throughout boyhood will make good,
wholesome character in manhood.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account