I have painted the family pressures in this somewhat lurid hue
because they are patterns of the other attacks which are made upon
the youth as he meets the world. The family is a little microcosm,
a sheltered group where youth feels all those currents of influence
that sway men in their social life. Some of them are exaggerated, some
perverted, but they are most of them there in that little world. It
is no new discovery that in family life one can find heaven or one
can find hell. The only pressure that is practically absent in the
family is the economic pressure, by which I mean the inducements,
and even necessities, that a youth is under of conforming to codes
or customs and changing his ideals and ideas, when he comes to earn
his livelihood. This pressure affects him as soon as he looks for an
opening, as he calls it, in which to make his living. At that time
all this talk of natural talents or bents or interests begin to sound
far-away and ideal. He soon finds that these things have no commercial
value in themselves and will go but a short way towards providing him
with his living. The majority of us “go to work” as soon as our short
“education” is completed, if not before, and we go not by choice,
but wherever opportunity is given. Hence the ridiculous misfits, the
apathy, the restlessness and discontent. The world of young people
around us seems too largely to be one where both men and girls are
engaged in work in which they have no interest, and for which they
have no aptitude. They are mournfully fettered to their work; all they
can seem to do is to make the best of it, and snatch out of the free
moments what pleasure and exhilaration they can. They have little hope
for a change. There is too much of a scramble for places in this busy,
crowded world, to make a change anything but hazardous. It is true that
restlessness often forces a change, but it is rarely for the better, or
in the line of any natural choice or interest. One leaves one’s job,
but then one takes thankfully the first job that presents itself; the
last state may be worse than the first. By this economic pressure most
of us are sidetracked, turned off from our natural path, and fastened
irrevocably to some work that we could only acquire an interest in at
the expense of our souls.
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