On the ironist himself the effect of irony is even more invigorating.
We can never really understand ourselves without at least a touch of
irony. The interpretation of human nature without is a simple matter
in comparison with the comprehension of that complex of elations and
disgusts, inhibitions and curious irrational impulses that we call
ourselves. It is not true that by examining ourselves and coming to
an understanding of the way we behave we understand other people, but
that by the contrasts and little revelations of our friends we learn
to interpret ourselves. Introspection is no match for irony as a
guide. The most illuminating experience that we can have is a sudden
realization that had we been in the other person’s place we should have
acted precisely as he did. To the ironist this is no mere intellectual
conviction that, after all, none of us are perfect, but a vivid
emotional experience which has knit him with that other person in one
moment in a bond of sympathy that could have been acquired in no other
way. Those minds that lack the touch of irony are too little flexible,
or too heavily buttressed with self-esteem to make this sudden change
of attitudes. The ironist, one might almost say, gets his brotherhood
intuitively, feels the sympathy and the oneness in truth before he
thinks them. The ironist is the only man who really gets outside of
himself. What he does for other people,--that is, picking out a little
piece of their souls and holding it up for their inspection,--he does
for himself. He gets thus an objective view of himself. The unhealthy
indoor brooding of introspection is artificial and unproductive,
because it has no perspective or contrast. But the ironist with
his constant outdoor look sees his own foibles and humiliations in
the light of those of other people. He acquires a more tolerant,
half-amused, half-earnest attitude toward himself. His self-respect
is nourished by the knowledge that whatever things discreditable and
foolish and worthless he has done, he has seen them approximated by
others, and yet his esteem is kept safely pruned down by the recurring
evidence that nothing he has is unique. He is poised in life, ready to
soar or to walk as the occasion demands. He is pivoted, susceptible to
every stimulus, and yet chained so that he cannot be flung off into
space by his own centrifugal force.
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